i wouldn't have thought pink boots could register as actively Dominant, but wow, Mistress Vixen just never misses! 🩷

a rare rope bondage moment for me (and an early one, too - this was happening around 9:30am today...).

[i had to take down a second photo i'd originally posted with this - the photographer was visible in one of the mirrors, and i hadn't gotten consent to post - the mirrors are a serious factor!]

p.s. i had to tweak the lyrics i quoted to fit the image. in my head-canon, elton would totally forgive this...

just calling it as i see it...but i'm happy it was helpful!

yes, lovense, and that hush plug! i second that e-motion...🫨❤️‍🔥

submission and service - they have their sprints, and they have their marathons. there's exertion in them. submission and service are challenging. there's a lot of joy in them if you're wired for them, but if they don't feel hard and demanding at times, i think you might not be doing them right.

i have a very intense fetish for stiletto heels 👠👠...so it feels tragic and like a crime against nature to me when an otherwise outstanding photo of a Domme or fetish model cuts off the image at the ankles...😬

why does the "discover" option for feeds here show accounts i'm already following? i've already discovered those, right...?

sorry to hear You're not feeling well, Mistress - wishing You a wealth of recovery energy! ✨

i looked it up, and apparently either is acceptable...so why do they both look so off-target?!

dildos or dildoes? they both look wrong...

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i believe there is also a fetish for every item not in the montgomery ward catalog...

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i guess this is one of those things that can be accurately filed under the heading of "sad but true." 😔

i'm so sorry for Your loss, Lady Victoria. i once befriended a feral cat, and i'll never forget the feeling of joy when she first let me pet her after a month of trust-building. wishing You much comfort in Your time of sorrow. 💜

"why do you like being submissive?"

in this life, being submissive to other forces is mandatory. i have to submit to people, institutions, the laws of physics and biology, and i don't get any say in any of it. in FemDom, though, i have agency. i *choose* who i submit to.

also, it's super-hot. ❤️‍🔥🖤❤️‍🔥

psa for subs, from someone who serves as secretary for a well-known ProDomme:

the one-word overture to Dommes, such as "hey," "hi," "yo," or anything similar will utterly fail you 1 million out of 1 million times. 👎

i received a message on another platform from someone i don't know whose username includes the phrase "fun guy"...and i couldn't help but immediately hear that in my head as "fungi," which can't possibly be what he was going for! 🍄

can't spell "incel" without "i.c.e." #failuresashumans #weakcowards #cowardlyweaklings #limpestofdicks #cosplayinglosers

ha! this is actually pretty hilarious, Mistress Em, and also accurate! and i was hoping the film reference would be recognized...😄

wanda: "i can't stand people. i hate them."
henry: "uh, yeah."
wanda: "do you hate them?"
henry: "no...but i seem to feel better when they're not around..."

it's true, they really are in charge...but it works for us! 😻😻 ...and happy holidays to you, as well, ethan!

life is busy at home, because my cats don't just want me to throw them a toy and let them tear it apart while i do other things - they want me to watch their performances intently and offer constructive feedback, and they will hound me and harangue me if i don't. 😼😼

She is one of the best in the industry 😍

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thanks, ethan, i appreciate that! 🙏😊

i've still never watched "john wick." it seems very well-loved, and i want to check it out, but every time i get near it, i remember that it all flows out of his dog getting killed, and i don't do well with any kind of violence in movies or tv shows being aimed at animals.