People donāt choose rejection.
They donāt choose discrimination.
They donāt choose to be misunderstood.
What they do choose is authenticity
and the chance at love, connection, and a life that actually feels like their own.
Posts by Matt Salmon
Honestly, even if it were a choice, why should that matter?
#LGBTQ
#ChooseLove
#AuthenticityMatters
#EndStigma
#mentalhealthtiktok
When talking about mental health, small differences in how something is said can completely change how itās understood.
This is what it sounds like when I donāt script. Often I write scripts so I can communicate clearly.
Both have value, but clarity is something I choose intentionally.
#audhd
What gets labeled as anxiety, obsession, or ātoo muchā⦠can be trauma shaped by shame, fear, and survival. Or even neurodivergence, among other things.
If you ignore the context, you donāt just miss the diagnosis, you reinforce the harm.
Have you ever been treated like the problem⦠when the system was?
#Trauma #ConversionTherapy #LGBTQ #Misdiagnosis #Neurodivergent
If diagnosis is just a checklistā¦
what exactly are we adding as clinicians?
The same symptoms can come from completely different causes.
Without context, youāre not understanding, youāre guessing based on assumptions.
#MentalHealth #Psychiatry #Neurodiversity #Trauma #Healthcare
I recently evaluated someone prescribed an antipsychotic for depression/anxiety (it was complex trauma) and wasnāt told the risks.
Thatās not informed consent.
The system pushes speedābut this is still a choice.
#mentalhealth #psychiatry #trauma #informedconsent #healthcare
Some diagnoses stick because theyāre accurate.
Others stick because no one slowed down enough to ask a better question.
And once itās in your chart⦠it starts shaping everything.
#psychiatry #misdiagnosis #bipolardisorder #traumatok #mentalhealthawareness
Have you ever had a diagnosis that didnāt feel right?
When no one slows down to really understand youā¦the wrong story can stick.
#psychiatry #misdiagnosis #mentalhealthawareness #therapytok #healthcare
Agreed. It is not rude to show up authentically and in ways that feel most comfortable. It would be wonderful if society shared these beliefs.
Your mind isnāt always telling you the truth. Sometimes itās trying to protect you.
The problem is⦠most people donāt know the difference.
Whatās a thought youāve had that felt trueābut wasnāt?
#mindfulness #selfawareness #mindset #anxietycheck #neurodiverse
In a system that prioritizes speed and categorization over understanding, that often gets labeled as anxiety, obsessiveness, or ātoo much.ā
Not because it is, but because it isnāt being recognized for what it actually is.
Misinterpretation doesnāt just change the label.
It changes the treatment.
If youāre autistic, rapid internal scanning in social momentsātrying to interpret subtle shifts, fill in missing information, and maintain connectionācan easily be misread.
What has this been called for you?
#actuallyautistic #neurodivergent #mentalhealth #misdiagnosis #masking
We often frame miscommunication as a patient issue. But what if itās actually a design problem?
Whatās something youāve said in a clinical setting that was misunderstood?
In mental health care, communication is not secondary. It is intervention.
When clinicians fail to clarify meaning, they risk building diagnoses and treatment plans on assumption rather than understanding.
#Psychiatry #Misdiagnosis #TraumaInformedCare #MentalHealthAwareness #HealthEquity
What gets labeled as āoverthinkingā is often rapid interpretation under uncertaintyātrying to protect connection without enough data.
Did I say something wrong?
Did something happen for them?
Did I lose their attention?
Or is it not about me at all?
A half-second change in someoneās expression can trigger a full internal scan.
What does your brain start scanning for in moments like this?
#autism #neurodivergent #mentalhealth #neurodiversity #psychology
The distinction between trauma, anxiety, OCD, and psychosis is not semantic.
Itās clinical.
And it matters.
Without clarification, this creates risk:
⢠Misinterpretation
⢠Misdiagnosis
⢠Inappropriate treatment
Good care requires translation, not assumption. And a good psychiatrist will seek clarification
Language in mental health is often treated as diagnostic shorthand.
But when patients use terms like āparanoiaā or āhallucinations,ā they are frequently describing experiences, not clinical definitions.
#MentalHealth #Psychiatry #Misdiagnosis #MentalHealthAwareness #BehavioralHealth
A lot of people donāt want peace.
They want compliance.
Because it gives them control.
If your āpeaceā depends on other people shrinking,
staying quiet,
or not naming whatās realā¦
thatās not peace.
Thatās power.
#peace #boundaries #powerdynamics #truthbetold #discomfort
Curious how others think about thisāwhat would it look like to design systems that actually produce health?
A substantial portion of health outcomes are driven by social and environmental conditions, not just individual behaviors.
Yet much of our system is built to intervene only after illness appears.
That raises a harder question:
Are we investing in healthāor just managing disease after the fact?
We often talk about health as if it begins in a clinic.
It doesnāt.
Health is shaped long before diagnosisāby housing, environment, safety, access to food, and the chronic stress people are forced to carry.
#Healthcare #PublicHealth #Equity #SocialDeterminants #Prevention #SystemsThinking
When we call adaptation ādisorder,ā
we donāt just get it wrong. We can create harm.
Because we start trying to fix the person instead of understanding what happened to them.
#nervoussystem #traumainformed #psychlgy #systemsthinking #contextmatters
Iām glad it resonated. Discomfort is really hard to face but itās only through facing it that we can learn how and be able to manage it.
Feelings are data.
Not instructions.
Itās your job to interpret themā¦
not automatically obey them.
#emotionalintelligence #mentalhealth #selfawareness #boundaries #growth
Many coping strategies reduce intensityābut also reduce access.
When we consistently numb discomfort,
we narrow our emotional range altogether.
Short-term relief can quietly become long-term disconnection.
#mentalhealth #coping #emotions #selfawareness #healing #psychology
We frame belief change as intellectual honesty.
But we ignore the social cost.
Beliefs are often tied to belonging, identity, and stability.
Letting go of them isnāt just cognitive. Itās consequential.
#beliefs #identity #psychology #growthmindset #selfreflection #change
Itās also not that more people are āgettingā autism. Weāre getting better at recognizing it.
For a long time, we just missed the people who didnāt fit the stereotype.
#AutismAwareness #Neurodivergent #MentalHealth #DisabilityJustice #Inclusion