The wild thing about kink is some people are like “I like to wear jockstraps” and some people are like “I have some initials branded into my flesh.” A truly wild spectrum!

"we need kids to get an early start operating machines that are routinely wrong and may try to coax them into suicide and/or psychosis" is a fun education perspective i disagree with actually

Your pleasure cannot wait.

Puritanical culture tells us to button up our sexuality.
To not speak of it in polite company.
That pleasure is for straight men.

No.

Come back to your body
Say yes to your desire.

When you fuel your erotic life, your whole life lights up.
We need you to shine bright.

Your pleasure cannot wait.

Puritanical culture tells us to button up our sexuality.
To not speak of it in polite company.
That pleasure is for straight men.

No.

Come back to your body
Say yes to your desire.

When you fuel your erotic life, your whole life lights up.
We need you to shine bright.

You don't need more sex tips, you need to heal the shame that you're still carrying in your body and spirit.

It’s called Snap Roulette: you open up Snapchat and your boyfriend picks one snap from your phone to open while sitting in the middle of the living room with family

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If polyamorous people can figure out how, where, and with who to spend holidays when having 3 partners, I promise you and your parents and your in-laws can work it out.

oh man, and relatedly "is it 'I'm just trying this to please you' or 'I think it would be a good and healthy thing for me to stretch and grow a bit'????"

“Waiting until marriage”
Monogamy
Chastity cages

are all different flavors of power exchange play—just with varying levels of consent and coercion

Sorting out “do I not like this? or am I ashamed to like this?” is such a thorny task sometimes…

Sex and romance are not at odds.
Neither are promiscuity and commitment.
Nor autonomy and interdependence.

You are big enough to hold it all.

one of my niche skills is regularly leaving one of the top 2 most liked comments on Instagram reels. the sense of creative accomplishment it gives me!

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When listening on AirPods Pro does music sound better with Apple Music vs Spotify? Or am I having auditory hallucinations?

It's difficult to estimate just how much pain this man caused, both directly and through others he infected with his hateful perversion of faith and spirituality.

What Law of the universe is it that all the guys on Grindr want to meet IMMEDIATELY after you give up and get off??

“We outlived James Dobson” is little comfort to me as I have a number of dear friends who didn’t outlive him.

He’s not the only reason they’re gone, but he made this world a place where it was that much harder for them to survive.

May we see the end of fundamentalism speedily & in our days.

This is how you do it. Troll tweeting is cute for a minute. Actual action and protection is better.

Thanks, gov ❤️🏳️‍🌈

There are parents out there really truly trying to do their best, and they turn to people they trust. And those people pass on bigotry where they should pass on love.

Bad theology kills.

… And he did.

I think him doing that saved our relationship.

My heart goes out to all the relationships James Dobson destroyed.

After I came out, there was a period where my dad and I were really struggling to talk about it. A few months in, he told he’d bought a book to try to understand better.

I looked and saw it was endorsed by Focus On The Family.

I told him it wasn’t to going to be helpful and to throw it away…

There’s a special kind of joy that comes with playing wingman for your husband

Live a life where people aren't happy when you die.

Two things can be true:

- I want to believe no one is irredeemable
- James Dobson made the world a worse place and we are better off without him

May those of us still here work to undo all the harm he wrought upon us.

I would choose to be gay.

Over and over and over again.