Going to @clubsop.co.uk with @jamesboundxxx.bsky.social 😛💦💦💦 See you there? 😉

IT COSTS MONEY TO GET A REFUND!? 😭😭

Well at least we got our own community members to help us :(

Exactly. My ADHD cannot remember these things. :(

TLDR: NO CUSTOMER SERVICE I AM NOT SATIFSIFED WITH YOUR ANSWER AND I'M ANGRY YOUR SYSTEM IS SEEMINGLY DESIGNED TO EXPLOIT FORGETFUL AND BUSY PEOPLE. Darklands and Tactile can at least send a reminder but that would mean losing easy money, wouldn't it? Please do better :(

Sure... that 20 Euro I didn't spend is not the end of the world. I forgot (oops) & it's annoying. But @darklandsfest.bsky.social can do more than the bare minimum, right? If they are being genuine, as I hope they are, they would want to remind us to refund through all channels as much as possible.

Cannot request until a week after? No reminders on email or social media channels? Not automatic? "The refund period...was clearly communicated on the topup platform" is legal T&C terms to excuse making quick buck. This in combination with the chem sex conference is degrading my trust in Darklands.

Darklands folks: Did you get a refund on your band? According to customer service, 95% of attendees remembered. (Sus...) I'm the 5% that did not (which if 95% is true, it's still likely several hundred folks). So can anyone explain to me how the system is not designed to exploit the community?

Finally a song written for me 😛

It’s on YouTube!

Did you spot me in the after video? 😛 💥

@darklandsfest.bsky.social

THEN WHY DO I STILL HATE THE GYM 😭😭

Just give me a bark sometime and let’s find a time 😉

Sure, he doesn’t always put his sash on in the right direction. But despite that, he’s a good boy and proud to be part of the lineage of kinky superheroes. 🐶

📸 @pupsnapuk

Can confirm 100% accurate.

Yeah! I don't mind anonymized or not.

My birthday treat — being in the middle of lots of hot men in @spandexparty.bsky.social singlets at GRIP. #lycramafia

Thanks for making it special, gents! But you all now need to change, it’s bad luck to be matching the birthday boy’s outfit. 😉

This is important work. But as an ethics reviewer at @itmantwerp.bsky.social, can you help us understand how the Darklands wastewater study, which collected biological data from a vulnerable community without consent or opt-out, passed your institution’s ethics review?

Glazed like a pretty cupcake or soggy biscuit ❤️❤️

I’d say GRIP was a good pre-birthday treat 😛💦💦💦

I swear every picture from the workshop I’m making my weird focusing face 🤣

After the #Darklands masterclass "Gunge Play 101" which was held by @napingunge.bsky.social we went to a nearby apartment and had a private gunge play party.
Big thanks to my Keyholder @paul0588.bsky.social for unlocking 🔓 and giving me a happy end 💦 in the gunge pool after being locked for 99 days.

Exactly 😛

I’m bored at the moment and want to hold and piss myself in my wrestling singlet. Anyone want to dom me over telegram? 😛💦

To be clear, no one wants Darklands to fail, or for ITM to close, that is not what is happening here. Asher’s call is a demand for both institutions to be better and to stand up for the communities they serve. Accountability doesn’t mean destruction, it is the first step to betterment.

Me!? What it’s doing to me! I’m the one tied up! 😭

The only time you can get me to shut up. 😅

📸 - Pup Charm

Since the topic is circulating within my community, here is the letter I sent to @itmantwerp.bsky.social yesterday re: Uninformed Exposure of Festival Participants During Darklands Study Visit – International Chemsex Conference, March 2026.

It was so strange. They were giving tours of the dressing rooms whilst I was getting changed. Nothing like one hundred non-Darklands attendees walking through unannounced. I dunno why Darklands didn’t post notice this was happening.