a girl with opinions, interests, a backbone?
burn her at the stake.

2025 version of pitchforks and bonfires = death threats and dogpiling

A man who tells you palo santo smells bad is not rejecting the scent — he’s rejecting the clearing. Pay attention.

repeat after me:
they will not force us
they will stop degrading us
they will not control us
we will be victorious.

🌸 soft revolution loading…

fun fact:
men reset every 24 hours
we reset every 28 days

but sure, tell me again how I’m “inconsistent”
for needing rest, softness, and space
in a system built to break me

I’m not lazy.
you’re just addicted to grind culture.

pretty.
powerful.
previously underestimated.

won’t happen again.

they built a world on a 24-hour loop
then asked us why we were tired
why we changed
why we couldn’t keep up

but our rhythm was never linear
we were born of moons and tides
not clocks and deadlines

I’m not broken.
I’m just not built for burnout.

women asking for monogamy aren’t entitled
they’re just clear

and if clarity scares you, that’s not her problem

if wanting love, loyalty, and flowers makes me a villain in 2025, then hand me the cape and cue the rainstorm.
i’ll be over here romanticizing my life anyway 💐🖤

soft reminder: desiring love doesn’t make you unhealed.
it makes you human.

some of us were never too sensitive. we were just surrounded by people who benefitted from our silence.

If they would’ve burned witches at the stake for having boundaries, I would’ve been smoke by now.

this work will cost you
because when you stand with survivors
you invite the shadows out of hiding

abusers will mask themselves as “concerned citizens”
enablers will call themselves “neutral”
and the world will ask if you’re sure,
again and again

this is not easy work
but it is holy work

Dating apps trick people into thinking love is about options instead of alignment.

Victim was never my name.
It was a label given to me in someone else’s story.
I chose survivor -
because I wanted my story back.

the moment you express a standard, people act like you’re asking for too much.
you’re not.

Every time I speak about what I want in a relationship, someone shows up to defend something I never attacked. Projection is loud.

just because i’m calm doesn’t mean it didn’t hurt. just because i’m posting doesn’t mean i’ve moved on. healing isn’t linear and neither is my content.

dating apps are just slot machines for situationships.

apparently monogamy is controversial now 💅🏻
i just want emotional safety, good communication, and flowers delivered regularly like a subscription service.
is that so much to ask?

He said my palo santo smelled bad. I said that’s not a red flag, that’s an exorcism.

repeat after me.

I’m not a victim.
I’m a survivor.
There’s a difference.
One keeps the story centered on what was done to me.
The other reminds me I lived. And I get to decide what happens next.

when a woman says what she wants,
they call her entitled

when she refuses to settle,
they call her difficult

maybe it’s not her
maybe it’s the fear of not being in control anymore

The more I heal, the less I crave almosts.

i’m not a ‘cool girl’ about my peace. i cleanse. i cut cords. i talk to spirits. i burn things. i walk away.

daily reminder that softness is strength 🌸

what no one tells you about working with survivors:
you will meet people who think “being fair”
means giving abusers the mic too

like sorry,
this isn’t a debate club
it’s a trauma-informed space
and we’re not taking arguments from the defense table

A man who says palo santo smells bad is a man you should be spiritually and physically running from.

Being a survivor doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t hurt.
It means choosing not to stay stuck in someone else’s narrative.
I lived. I choose. I tell it now.