Feels like I can never have things both financially and socially, personally stable at the same time. Some area of my life has to be a fucking disaster any given month.
Posts by blackbird81
Had a good weekend despite the other things going on in my life.
Caught up with a couple I've known for years but hadn't seen in a while. Two friends paid for me to go to 2 events I wouldn't have seen otherwise.
Back to the grind this week (incl. stress about the grind not serving it's purpose....)
"Basically, Iโm too old to sell pussy so I applied at a job at Starbucks"
Relatable tbh ๐ฎโ๐จ
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Howdy! I was able to scrounge up the first part of the payment but now June is fast approaching and I need to pay the second $2700.
The world hasn't been kind to artists in the literal 1 month since the last time so I need to once again ask for help and rely on the kindness of strangers online โผ๏ธ๐
any help getting food 2day would b deeply appreciated ๐ฅบ๐ซถ๐
Still raising money to pay my medical bills if any kind soul has some spare change. ๐๐ธ
ca: $thomasterstl
v: frankenmeyer
My cat Rose with a Kirby filter so it shas Kirby sucking his head.
Hi friends, still living paycheck to paycheck and I'm officially out of my medicine after an unexpected parking ticket. Copays are 47 but anything helps. ๐
cash.app/$schwg
venmo.com/u/Schwegler
paypal.me/schwegler
๐๐ธ #mutualaid
I'm so sorry but I needed to take a couple days off I've just been overwhelmed the past couple days. The new landlord is filing the eviction paperwork but says I have until they finish to get at least half of the $795. If anyone can help or RT
Cashapp/Venmo
AkiDoughNa
PayPal
comicartofmh@gmail.com
Did y'all see that Diplo thing about not hiring singers anymore and just using AI? ๐ฌ
Too many attractive men out there...I can't afford all these OnlyFans subs. ๐ ๐ธ I can't even keep track. My bookmarks are like in the hundreds.
Ooh is that @zourik.bsky.social
Also, just filed mine and also ready to relax with that weight lifted from my shoulders ๐ค
Thinking about all those jerk visual novel love interests, you know the ones you have to struggle every step of the way into the relationship? Like, why do we even bother?
"I used to like it when you're mean (ayy)
It made me feel like I was special if you loved me"
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That bush tho ๐คฉ
1. Top 3 kinks
I'm not really kinky/fetishy tbh but I'm into rope, more for fashion than bondage, but somewhere in the middle.
I have "mummified" a handful of folks after a friend I made through kink got me into it.
I find being flogged on the back w/ something "thuddy" meditative/massage-like.
GET TO KNOW ME 1 Like = 1 Answer 1. Top 3 Kinks 2. Room Crush 3. Hobbies 4. Height 5. Turn Offs 6. Random Fact about You? 7. Do you get jealous easily? 8. Favorite color? 9. Zodiac Sign? 10. Share something Funny about yourself? 11. Show us your favorite Selfie? 12. Favorite Food? 13. Perfect Date? 14. Biggest Fear? 15. Pet Peeve? 16. Bra/Dick Size? 17. What's the wildest thing you have done sexually? 18. Favorite Movie? 19. How many Tattoos/ Piercings do you have? 20. Have you ever cheated or been cheated on? 21. Role? 22. Birthday? 23. What is your dream vacation? 24. Have you ever had a one night stand? 25. What are your top 3 on your bucket list? 26. Who is your hero? 27. What makes you sad? 28. What makes you happy? 29. Anal-Yes or No? 30. Outdoor sex- Yes or No?
Not answering the dick size one but I'll give most of the others a try.
#askmeme
It does lasting emotional and psychological harm to teach a child that people can hurt them and no one will stand up for them or make it stop.
But people trivialize it and victim-blame when adults who survived this have baggage.
No parent intentionally sends their child to school to be mistreated.
No child inherently deserves to be mistreated.
It's abuse. Full stop. Even if kids don't know better not to treat each other these ways or are acting out from their own issues at home etc, the responsibility lies with the adults in the room to prevent harm for their charges.
๐ซ I feel you on this.
My first elementary school principal told my mother she valued me too much for coming to him about the bullying I experienced on bus rides to/from school.
And tbh I didn't have it nearly as bad as some kids.
I've always hated how people treat bullying as normal or minimize it.
Congratulations You are a QuizzlerMax You made it through 30 questions and proved your devotion to my bullshit. ๐ฏ1 Breakfast Appreciator Burger Denied Creamy Person egg fun Guy no Mayo orderly overflowing Inbox pirate potato Powered pumped Up The savvy Shopper wildy Fearer
Took @ninji.dog's quiz. wuffs.org/quiz/
I was entertained.
I loled (comedy) www.facebook.com/share/r/1KTK...
๐คฃ I forgot what day it was. But also what if....
We can all let some shit go that is only a problem because we're making it a problem. It's just different things for different people.
You want me to mind my business and let you live, then you better do the same when the position is reversed.
What do you gain from punishing someone publicly because you feel "cheated" or like they're not using the label the way that makes sense to *you*, someone who doesn't live in that person's mind?
And yes I will call myself in about this even as I am calling others out where it applies to them.
This shit is complicated and figuring ourselves out in a world that assumes default all sexuality doesn't get easier when people are so ready to pounce on any of our (perceived) inconsistencies.
Saw a lovely pinned post explaining types of attraction and felt seen, then saw a comment on a comment attacking someone for still posting and interacting with sexual posts despite being ace, like it was some kind of gotcha.
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Maybe listen to understand and be curious instead of attacking first?
I'm sorry that the world is such a terrible place for us queer folks, and trans folks in particular. I want better for you than this, in ways both great and small.
It's Trans Day of Visibility 2026
I want to wish you a happy day but in the US at least, a state just unbanned conversion therapy today with only one supreme Court judge dissenting
blessings on Judge Ketanji Brown Jackson, trying to halt our descent into ruin by tooth and nail. Long may she preside
I was looking for a "twin titties" comment before making one ๐คฃ