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Posts by Ralph Bear

That sounded very Cluedo.

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We all win with you naked

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Bathroom lighting has done me right this weekend

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Another busyish weekend for me. Brunch with a dear friend visiting from
NZ, board games last night, and we’re off to see “I Swear” later today.

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Oh you, get your eyes checked

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Thanks gorgeous you too

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Far too kind

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Yeah true

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Glad it's Friday y'all

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So far exactly what I wanted and needed from new Jessie

Loving it

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Sooo hard

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Once upon a time he got paid very handsomely for what he does but he is one of the people who’s roles AI is coming for hard

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He’s like a brother but Lordy, we are not the same nor did we have similar childhoods and pasts

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He has them but doesn’t like to wear them because he’s a bit vain lol

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Oh, you know who. Love him but his privilege knows no bounds

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We all have that unaware friend who complains often about how hard it has been to be conventionally handsome, lean, and unable to get fat - and what a terrible burden it has been having a penis that is large when soft.

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Wooooof

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I started to write a rebuttal and thought “nope, if you cat be bothered checking some details that’s on you, willfully misrepresenting, again on you”

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Someone didn’t bother to check some things about me and what might change the tenor of what I said, the interpreted a simple statement with a much different intent

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Deciding not defend myself when someone recontextualised and interpreted me is growth, of a sort

I said what I said, not what you heard

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I know the one you are referring to and it’s one I don’t particularly care for at all but again it’s our word to use not theirs. Queer feels inclusive for me

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Happily be an uncle

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I got taken to task by an older gentleman (older than me) for referring to a group I am in as “mostly queer”.

“I am not queer, I am a gay man and I don’t like that term”.

I just don’t get why so many older gays have this aversion to the word.

Reclaiming words used to hurt us is important

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Steven Universe tees have arrived!

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It’s designed by Jordan Ratskopoulis

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I did too - Jordan did a few runs of them but not sure if she’s doing any more

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Another day another gym session

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Away overnight with friends last night.

Felt really disconnected and
“off” which is not so common for me. Nice to see everyone but I just didn’t feel centered there

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Delicious. Yes please

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Too kind Mark

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