That sounded very Cluedo.
Posts by Ralph Bear
We all win with you naked
Bathroom lighting has done me right this weekend
Another busyish weekend for me. Brunch with a dear friend visiting from
NZ, board games last night, and we’re off to see “I Swear” later today.
Oh you, get your eyes checked
Thanks gorgeous you too
Far too kind
Yeah true
Glad it's Friday y'all
So far exactly what I wanted and needed from new Jessie
Loving it
Sooo hard
Once upon a time he got paid very handsomely for what he does but he is one of the people who’s roles AI is coming for hard
He’s like a brother but Lordy, we are not the same nor did we have similar childhoods and pasts
He has them but doesn’t like to wear them because he’s a bit vain lol
Oh, you know who. Love him but his privilege knows no bounds
We all have that unaware friend who complains often about how hard it has been to be conventionally handsome, lean, and unable to get fat - and what a terrible burden it has been having a penis that is large when soft.
Wooooof
I started to write a rebuttal and thought “nope, if you cat be bothered checking some details that’s on you, willfully misrepresenting, again on you”
Someone didn’t bother to check some things about me and what might change the tenor of what I said, the interpreted a simple statement with a much different intent
Deciding not defend myself when someone recontextualised and interpreted me is growth, of a sort
I said what I said, not what you heard
I know the one you are referring to and it’s one I don’t particularly care for at all but again it’s our word to use not theirs. Queer feels inclusive for me
Happily be an uncle
I got taken to task by an older gentleman (older than me) for referring to a group I am in as “mostly queer”.
“I am not queer, I am a gay man and I don’t like that term”.
I just don’t get why so many older gays have this aversion to the word.
Reclaiming words used to hurt us is important
Steven Universe tees have arrived!
It’s designed by Jordan Ratskopoulis
I did too - Jordan did a few runs of them but not sure if she’s doing any more
Another day another gym session
Away overnight with friends last night.
Felt really disconnected and
“off” which is not so common for me. Nice to see everyone but I just didn’t feel centered there
Delicious. Yes please
Too kind Mark