That's a good boy. Get those fat nuts up against your chin.

Oh, you just wanted some special dad time?

That's a good boy. Get those fat nuts up against your chin.

Oh, you just wanted some special dad time?

Alright buddy, time to wrap it up. I'm trying to get some sleep.

Philosophy and psychology are always fun to dip into. Would probably play board games if I had people to play with 😅
I'm a STEM slut, mostly natural sciences though...botany, chemistry, geology, astronomy, medicine...bodybuilding/exercise... making things when I have time.

Demi means that there won't be sex *unless* there is a deeper connection. It's a requirement, not a preference for us.

I need to get to know you before I can even get horny around you.

That definitely seems to be the more standard approach in the pup/furry/gay community and a reason I think I struggle - sex first, then friends. I just don't operate like that. I'm not good at starting conversations either so its basically hopeless 😅 We should try to be awkward together sometime.

If that sounds nice. Come say hi, get a hug, and maybe we can be chill together. Can't guarantee sex, but only time will tell.

I go to cons because I like the vibe. I like to be goofy in suit and watch the creative spectacle of furries. I like to hang out with likeminded people and chill in that space without pressure or expectations. Admittedly, I haven't found these people 😅

The experience I want is to be seen as a person worth interacting with, regardless of sexual interest. If people really aren't talking to me because I have expressed that I'm not seeking sex, then that says more about them than me.

I don't seek sex at cons because it just creates anxiety and stress for me that take me out of my con experience. I'm usually there with someone I know/love and so my needs are met.
Doesn't mean I won't meet someone and something develops over time but that requires that social chasm to be crossed.

Not the intent of the post, but interesting conversation at least. I am not technically closed, but I am demi. My particular flavor of demi requires some physical attraction and that I know, am comfortable with, and like the people I have sex with.

I was so covered in X lube I'm not sure I could even hold the phone 😅

The things I did to that pussy afterwards 🤤😤

Yes 😊 despite my social foibles I still managed to have two absolutely amazing people in my life. I'm a lucky wolf 🥰

Veggies are all I can think of 😅

Also...I love your beautiful and creative cocktails, but alcohol is working against you in every possible way if you're trying to lose fat. Just something else to consider.

Looking forward to talking with you at a con then 😉

Thank you everyone for building me up 🩷 I honestly wasn't fishing for compliments 😅

What I intended to convey is...if you're on a body improvement journey, don't expect it to solve your social problems. You've got to do it for yourself. The social stuff takes a different kind of work.

If so, it really confirms a negative script I have about the community. That you're not worth talking to unless sex is on the table. I always ask people to come say hi and get hugs too but no one takes me up on that either.
I'm also quite sure not everyone at these events sees my posts 😅

Good, but full of mischief 😏

In their natural habitat

Aside from a bit of extra social media attention, this body hasn't opened many doors. No one talks to me at cons or at bars...not sure I've ever been openly hit on. Maybe that's because I'm older, intimidating, or just socially awkward.

The point is, do it for yourself! I'm happy with how I look.

It's gonna be worth it when you see your very own space setup ❤️

The most bad-ass rebuttal from Tite Kubo, the author of Bleach.

Here's to another 5K!

Gonna miss my little man 💔

We put our dog down today...

Completely broken. This dog meant everything to us. Our hearts have a missing piece 🤍🖤

Probably gonna disappear for a bit to grieve.

Find a dad that will look at you like this 😘

❤️: @artiedoe.bsky.social

So big! 🥵❤️