That some men were constant in their safety, in their gentleness, in their curiosity. Z asked about Opa today, and I told him he moved into the sky and we will see you in the rainbows. I will miss you, Grampa.

I just wanted to say that I remember him as a man who had the energy of a gentle hand squeeze, that in the 70’s was a hunk in upstate New York with a pot leaf jean jacket, and who taught me some men were capable of asking nothing of you but to teach you to hit golf balls and laugh at corny jokes.

The last time I hugged him goodbye he was so frail and anxious. I stayed with him during the day once his spells started for a time right after Covid hit. He didn’t understand what was happening and why he always felt so upset. He was being consumed by disease. The sweetest man. It wasn’t right.

We kind of lost track once we had lives, and eventually families of our own, but I saw him at family events and he almost always remembered what I was up to last time we spoke. Until he didn’t.

My Grampa passed away. He was one of the sweetest men that ever lived. I’m not sure I’ve ever heard him raise his voice, much less in anger. Maybe just if someone was trying to pull something in a Scrabble game. Took us to Hershey every summer until we were nearly teenagers.

I wish to be desirable to me and highly-intelligent, gender-role flexible individuals exclusively, and I actually don’t give a fuck what they look like as long as I get warm tingles in my no no spots, what is that called

the portion of my life I’ve wasted trying to be desirable or impressive to men is actually a massive source of shame for me AMA

Hospice.

illegal

every so often I come across a photo and the energy coming off of it is genuinely spooky

it’s crazy thinking about how I was so close to some of the fakest people on the earth, like truly scary. why did I do that

I asked for an update to our ICE policy since it hadn’t been for several months and I’m not sorry I’m like this, please fucking try it

there’s something so …off about their faces. and I have to see and hear about them everywhere because nobody is getting laid enough

neither of those boys are attractive but the dark haired one, be so for real

why do mammograms have to hurt so baaaaaaaad bro tf????

mah Child™️

I wish Ireland was real

Z gets books sent to him through the Dolly Parton Imagination Library and every time I rip off the wrapper I get a whiff of the Scholastic Book Fair and then I unapologetically huff that shit straight into the core of my soul. Healing my poor kid trauma one book at a time

Was watching Blues Clues with Z with the new guy and Steve the OG came on unexpectedly as a cameo and I burst into tears lmaooooo that’s my dawg for REAL

I live in the right little corner of PA at least, look at god

I can’t believe Andrew Hozier-Byrne wrote Monster Mash

spewky time.

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every year I love my prominent nose more. there’s so many people out there that look exactly the same but I have something no one else on earth has. it’s been a back and forth thing my whole life but now I love her completely

Gorgeous Fall day at @grimsorchard with the fam.
Z’s love for pumpkins started way back in the summer, and he got to live out his wildest dreams at the patch today.
🍂🍁🌾🌽🎃🍎🌳🐐🚜✨💫

I said this to someone recently but Haley Williams is music for women who like pop but won’t shave their pussy and that’s the best way I can think to describe it

Having genuine singing chops helps this spectacularly.

I genuinely hate to bring it up only because of how it could be perceived as pitting women against each other, which I find to be lazy and anti-intellectual. But Hayley Williams’ new album is proof you can do pop without being an invertebrate tone-deaf dog-whistling overgrown teenager about it.

“if you don’t like Taylor you hate fun/whimsy/womanhood” girl no I hate hypocrites and billionaires who make music for soup-brained self-victimizers and infantilizers but good job for putting words together in a sentence

stunning, no notes.

actually, my only note is that you’re a man that is yelling but the acuity of the message makes up for it.