in the abdl communit theres many amazing subsections
that make up this place we call home!
many enjoy being an adult baby/babyfur!
but they are not the only people who engage in this community!
assuming everyone who wears
diapers, engages in abdl content, or anyone whos in the space
is automatically into baby ageplay/abdl content is a misnomer!
theres diaper lovers, middles, padded caretakers, caretakers, kidfurs
and many many more!
there are times where people will seem to you to be acting bratty,
unless you know thier stance, your dynamic, and if its ok. dont do it
its discomforting, awkward, and its generally disrespectful behavior.
even if you arent trying to be rude!
telling people they smell, are babies, or pressing them to
engage in abdl content they dont like (eg, peer pressure to mess/wet)
unsolicited/pictures, and general off-putting behavior makes
the space frustrating for people who dont follow the label being pushed on them!
so with all of this... how should i engage?
when you meet a new person, learn about them!
getting to know someone is the easiest and most
effective way to understand whats allowed!
everyone has thier own unique dynamics, from
strict to open and many inbetween!
this will make your relationship built on a solid
foundation of expectations, respect, and bounderies!
if someones asks you to stop teasing, stop immediately!
apologize, understand, and remember for the future!
continuting to do this to someone once they have asked
you to stop is immature, unhealthy, and a major red flag
about bounderies and respect.
respect bounderies
even if you dont understand them personally.
there are reasons
if you follow these you should be golden! everyone you
see online are people with thier own feelings and they
deserve to be treated with resepct. it keeps them and our
community safe, fun, and special.
thanks friend!
🚧Not everyone in ABDL is a baby, or into being teased about these topics🚧
It may not be flashy, but it should get the point across!
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