yes for sure

incredibly normal reasons i’m sure

based, actually

oh she’s on that old school gatekeeping belief shit

hmm i probably should sit sometime with how called out i feel by this

ya it’s def a complicated one, i think it’s easier for me just bc it kind of falls naturally out of how i came to regard things philosophically several years ago

a little more selectivity would have been nice tho 😓

maybe it did maybe it didn’t if only i could remember 😅

YUP SAME i mean i know we chatted about it last game night but literally it was one of the things that finally drove me to therapy 🙃

idk not really like abuse is abuse bc of its effect not its intent, it’s wholly possible to inflict abuse with the best possible intent and then continue to care for you and grow in their own understanding & acceptance all without realizing the impact of what they’d done

don’t remember is obviously an incredible mood, like “what dont I remember happening” has been on my mind this last week too, since admitting “yeah probably i just forgot about wanting to be a girl on my own is likely a stretch” 🙃

feels very two things can be true

Silver earrings with square cut sapphires and some kind of clear round gem below them, and a green and purple oval stone pendant

@peculiarityshop.bsky.social yay!

D:

ma’am how did you do that D:

put in my new patient form with a third place i just learned about that's still in state and is supposed to be much faster about everything 💜🎉

i did finally do this, go me for acknowledging it had finally become pressing enough

i can't even tell anymore if this is just a bit you do when you want to get yelled at or if you still actually believe it, like i'm definitely sympathetic i always have the same "i mean it's not that much of a change" feeling looking at old photos but c'mon

it' a valid question, she's done it before

settling into rapid onset motherhood, in a manner of speaking

I assume I don't need to say this but if you start deadnaming and misgendering trans people because you don't like their politics I think you should share a space in the ditch along with the rest of the fascists.

this is the coolest til that ilt

like im more than secure with myself at this point and its STILL affirming, in a way, to see a dude thriving going in the other direction

and I’ve heard more than one trans woman who said she realized she could transition by knowing or seeing a trans dude embracing the masculinity she hated ❤️

yeah you!

“13 year old me finds a website that documents bottom surgery - graphically - in 1999” was a hell of a memory to repress, and yet

NASA astronaut Christina Koch sits in an U.S. Navy MH-60S Seahawk attached to Helicopter Sea Combat Squadron (HSC) 23 on the flight deck of the San Antonio Class amphibious transport dock USS John P. Murtha (LPD 26) after returning from space on Apr. 10, 2026.

This picture of Astronaut Christina Koch after the Artemis landing is frankly incredible and beautiful.

A Pride flag that is real ripped up, in a way you'd see in a heavy-handed political cartoon or stock photo intended to demonstrate the Troubled Times

We left the Pride flag out over the winter and now it looks like a metaphor

ngl the dream that smashed my egg featured both “telling someone I’d started hormones” and also “making out with a guy, for some reason” and only one of those things ever got interrogated

so i def can’t fault anyone for the choice, whyever they make it

lol yeah fair point

oh legit i did not know that i thought it was like a “i realized i was doing comphet thing and so stopped”