.@tomgauld.bsky.social gets it. Again.
Posts by Vida Cruz-Borja
ICYMI:
(Yes, I have been rewatching FMA:B on and off.)
Baby's doing great, growing steadily and showing how curious she is. Husband is the best of all husbands and I am proud to be married to him.
Watch this space because I'll be dropping an exciting announcement next month!
I know I've been quiet on here. If you'd like to know what happened, the update on my life in general is in the link—there's been no change really, except I used a credit card to get a very good HMO and that I quote Edward Elric to myself once a day:
"I'm pretty relentless at staying alive."
Tomorrow's the final day to enter my giveaway of autographed copies of my fantasy novella!
My new update has some final details, but I also wanted to say thank you for donating & boosting these posts. I was able to afford blood tests this week thanks to your help!
www.gofundme.com/f/help-r-s-a...
Forget Looksmaxxing.
Try BOOKSMAXXING!
I shaved forty-five minutes off my beauty* routine** and used it to read an extra book each week!
Join the booksmaxxing revolution today and be the envy of your friends!
[*very beholdery beauty]
[**not an actual routine. More like random hygiene tics]
Cover reveal day! Super stoked to be in this one 💜
Join me in helping a talented writer, awesome human, and friend - for @laviecestmoi.bsky.social
Thanks Mina :)
Thank you, Rochita! The story in question is free to read over at @strangehorizons.bsky.social.
Rochita is helping me with my fundraiser for my medical needs. If you liked the story and feel so inclined, my fundraiser is linked below:
gogetfunding.com/medical-and-...
Vida Cruz-Borja @laviecestmoi.bsky.social could use a little more help at this time. Do check out her fundraiser gogetfunding.com/medical-and-...
@haymarketbooks.org is offering 3 free ebooks for anti-fascists wanting to learn how to resist fascism.
"Unbuild Walls" by @silkys13.bsky.social
"Border and Rule" by @harshawalia.bsky.social and
"The Case for Open Borders" by @jwashing.bsky.social
www.haymarketbooks.org/blogs/525-fr...
Er sorry I should have been clearer: order any of the books in the series and get an EXCLUSIVE ebook with bonus shenanigans involving our Fallen angel cast, a birthday party and a decidedly over-friendly magical fungus.
PENELOPEEEEEEEE
“Sin, young man, is when you treat people like things. Including yourself. That’s what sin is.” - Granny Weatherwax, Carpe Jugulum by Terry Pratchett
Very kind of you to boost, John. Thank you 💜
Thank you! Right back at you with manageable health 💜
I closed my eyes as I took the screenshot, so it must be meant to be! Claiming this energy and throwing all my troubles to the sky ✨
Thank you 💜
Not me looking for the cursed symbol and going "surely they don't mean the rocket penis on the left..."
What in the *actual* fuck indeed...
ICYMI:
So there. I'm still recovering in every way. I still mean to finish off that zine I promised to donors; please hold on a little longer while I get everything in order; for the sake of my baby and myself, I have to go at a much slower pace these days.
May we all have a gentler 2026. 💜
But my mental health was still shit. I figured this out when I heard the ultra-negative mind voice looping while I played with my baby daughter. So I made the decision to forcibly turn this car around; rehabilitating my mind included a drastic decrease in social media use. +
With my bank account depleted and my mental health spiralling, I got a second opinion. I was put on more affordable meds, a stricter diet, and ordered blood tests every 2-3 months to monitor my creatinine, among other things. I could live with this, it made me feel better. +
It turned out that one of the many cysts in my kidneys had burst. Probably from the stress and the UTI that took 3 courses of different antibiotics to beat.
On top of the transplant, the nephrologist said I would need to take new meds to delay the transplant by 7 years. They cost 135 USD a week. +
I've had my PKD diagnosis for almost 15 years now. For the longest time, I was only in the 1st stage. It turns out that pregnancy can speed it up quite a bit.
In that 1st month after she was born, I had recurring fevers, back pain, bloody urine. Anxiety spikes so bad, I thought I would die. +
First things first: the baby is fine now. She's honestly the best baby anyone could ask for. My husband and I are so in love with her. 💜 When people ask me what the hardest thing about being a mom is, I answer that it's being chronically, devastatingly ill while trying my best to mother her. +
Hello all, I'm sure some here are wondering why I've gone quiet lately.
The TL;DR: I have Polycystic Kidney Disease for a long time. This year, I was pregnant and gave birth prematurely. And while dealing with the baby's NICU stay, a nephro told me I will need a kidney transplant in 4 years. +