Performing deviance isn't deviance.
Kink spaces aren't exempt. A lot of what passes is just grifter logic using the transgression aesthetic as cover for the same exploitation you'd find elsewhere 🖤
#kink #BDSM #SexWork #deviance
Thanks to all the colleagues and subs who helped make my birthday yesterday special. 💋
Maybe it's just me but I feel like the correct way to find the answer is through extensive live experimentation.🤔
Joy is an act of resistance btw
Art is an act of resistance btw
Love is an act of resistance btw
Thanks Kitty 💋
Today's the day. Another level up.✨❤️🔥🐏🐂
dommedirectory.com Does anyone know who is behind this page? It reeks of "this site was made by AI" especially with the info they have displayed on the pages.
Take care of your gear! Make sure it's clean, and if it's leather, set aside time to give it a good conditioning from time to time. Well-cared-for leather will LAST.
There are “doers” & there are those who either are too scared to try, or simply prefer to fantasize about things instead of doing them.
As an educator, I love helping the scared ones find the bravery to go do things.
In my personal life, though, I prefer the company of fellow doers. Full stop.
If you use C4S, you need to read this thread. Every concern I’ve had about C4S+ is true. I won’t using it.
With my birthday coming up in a few days, I wanted to focus on supporting a local latex creator who has certainly supported me. On my @throne.com , you'll find vouchers in different increments for @rubberrescue.bsky.social I'll be putting these towards a custom latex creation. throne.com/msjadis
and yet....
Sydney 30th April - 3rd May
I preemptively block “subs“ I see being disrespectful to peers. The pick me crew can court them all they like, but misogynistic subs will always end up turning on you.
Theme: Eyes
Mistress Jadis Ives
@msjadis.bsky.social
That boundary between fantasy and reality is an important one in our kink world; it's essential for keeping things ethical. Don't let your role swallow you whole.
It's often quite the opposite than they assume when it comes to "informed". 😎
Autistic kinksters can also sometimes be more at risk from predators within the scene, as their difficulties with reading subtle cues and tendency to take things at face value can make it difficult for them to detect negative intent. #kinkonthespectrum #worldautismunderstandingmonth
This can present a disadvantage to them in gaining trust and visibility within the scene in order to find suitable play partners, especially since these types of environments make it very difficult for them to present as a best version of themselves.
Autistic people can find that the kink community does come with some pitfalls. A lot of kink socialising revolves around club nights and play parties which can be a draining, overwhelming environment for kinksters on the spectrum.
So much love from peeps for this set – so here’s another of me in my own #Latex shot by incredible image-maker @soul_focus_studio at @lunaparksydney ! #mistresstokyo #soulfocusstudio #lunaparksydney
Good morning perverts.
It's always time for more Skyrim. Comfort game. ❤️
Gimp is @tytnshiny.bsky.social
Photo by Iscariot Studios
My demonic slut wants to give everyone their pound of flesh 🔪
So our performance this weekend will be interactive~
See the suffering Friday night
only @montrealfetishweekend 💋
Ready to hunt my next prey...
In addition, many kink activities involve rhythmic, repetitive sensations, which can provide similar benefits to stimming. #kinkonthespectrum #worldautismunderstandingmonth
Many Autistic people find situations far easier to navigate when they are able to predict what will happen. A culture of consent, detailed pre-negotiation and clear communication guidelines often facilitate this in a kink context.
Mistress Jadis Ives is dressed in layered latex standing over her fully enclosed latex gimp.
The poet, not the muse. ⛓️
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