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Posts by Ava Lily

Julian and now Maggie aren't agile enough in their armor? You can absolutely have both. Do it.

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TSICH ATLY
lifeafterpsychiatry
Sep 24, 2021
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If you accidentally hurt someone or cross their boundaries and they make you aware of this, literally all you have to do is apologize and stop. You don't have to beat yourself up internally for months. You don't have to hate yourself for fucking up. You don't have to feel like a horrible person. No one benefits from any of that - and at worst, such an extreme reaction will make the person in question less likely to speak up around you in the future, cause even if your negative reaction is directed at yourself and not at them, it's still unpleasant for everyone involved.

TSICH ATLY lifeafterpsychiatry Sep 24, 2021 Follow If you accidentally hurt someone or cross their boundaries and they make you aware of this, literally all you have to do is apologize and stop. You don't have to beat yourself up internally for months. You don't have to hate yourself for fucking up. You don't have to feel like a horrible person. No one benefits from any of that - and at worst, such an extreme reaction will make the person in question less likely to speak up around you in the future, cause even if your negative reaction is directed at yourself and not at them, it's still unpleasant for everyone involved.

I’m also just going to add that this is a classic form of making everything about yourself & can, in some cases, basically traumatize people in your life into silence bc asking you gently to stop bringing up certain topics, etc. results in a complete and total breakdown centered on your self image

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Alexandra is a lovely name; it's nice to meet you.

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Would you want to eat a meal there? No? Then why would you expect your mistress to?

No, you will be savored, and your anticipation is part of the fun.

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"I was specifically told not to do this, then did it anyway"
People get fired from McDonald's for this level of immaturity.

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Yes.

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Thank you for sharing this. I find the concept of hypnosis interesting on a technical level (look at another wild thing brains can do!), but the idea of giving up control like that is frankly terrifying. It'd only be with someone I absolutely trust with the most vulnerable parts of myself.

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The person giving the instruction is obviously an impostor, since they don't know how to clearly communicate direction in space.

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Considering what happened the last time you wrote one...

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Please tell me more. :3

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Filing motions or filling motions?

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Dear Jurassic World:

If you give me no likable characters, I’m going to root for the dinosaurs. This is not a problem, except you clearly want me to root for the humans.

Here’s an idea: next movie, it’s all poachers. By the end of the movie, they have all been eaten or stomped. Dinos win.

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I'm not loud. But the involuntary sounds that get pulled out of me? I will happily be an instrument in her hands.

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I cannot recommend the audiobook versions highly enough. Probably the best narration I've ever heard, and it adds so much depth to the characters. Check it out if you can.

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Somehow, I get the feeling that you really like Hikari.

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I have been called out *again*. Don't have the bag I used in high school anymore, though. Switched to laptop bags in college.

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That extra bonus keytar is piquing my interest. Very curious to find out what the story there is.

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Maybe someday I'll write down the story idea I had that's set on a series of moons around a gas giant, with all the weird orbital mechanics that produces.

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I think that speaks to the heart of why they're doing this. Older Kindles have been the easiest way to break their DRM on ebooks for years.

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I am down for cozy cuddling.

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People who are actually lazy don't feel guilty about it.

And sometimes you simply need to rest. If you don't, your body will make the decision for you.

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As someone who is very much trans herself, it is heartwarming to see a cis person treat the term as a compliment.

I have long appreciated your inclusiveness.

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The delight this will bring someone who reads Magica Riot for the first time and decides to check if the website exists. Like calling a phone number shown in a movie and you get a recorded in-universe message.

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Adorable!

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The spirit is willing, but physics may disagree. It'd probably be easier for the adorable dragon to carry me off instead.

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I'm trying to read as fast as you post it!

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Yeah, I have no idea what to put them on, but I needed them.

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A package stamped with the Rising Sun logo, a symbol of Dark Science from the webcomic/graphic novel Dresden Codak. In the background is a trans pride flag.

A package stamped with the Rising Sun logo, a symbol of Dark Science from the webcomic/graphic novel Dresden Codak. In the background is a trans pride flag.

A package with a mysterious symbol appeared at my door. @dresdencodak.com

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I do have a four-poster bed.

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Excellent use of alt text

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