Posts by Arabella Hille
If you tell a child they are wicked long enough, they will eventually believe you. If you show them they are good but simply in training, they will strive to reach that baseline. #parenting
Disciplining children should align with their age and maturity level, rather than the intensity of your anger.
Children often feel intense, rapidly shifting emotions because their brains are still developing, leaving them to process joy, anger, fear, and sadness in raw, unfiltered ways. #parenting
What kind of world turns it’s back on children and stands up for a criminal?! This isn’t about race, this is about what is right and what is wrong! Where is your moral outrage for these children? SILENCE and more SILENCE. It tells us everything we need to know. #epsteinfiles #justice #parenting
I watched ad people shat on cop cars, beat old ladies in the streets and looted local businesses to stand up for a man who had a wrap sheet longer than your arm, YET now we know from the Epstein Files that children have been systematically used like cattle to pleasure the worlds elite.. SILENCE!
We all saw the outrage about George Floyd, and how Billionaires should pay more tax, now we have REAL evidence that Billionaires globally have been torturing, raping, and eating children they code word as ‘jerky’ and ‘cheese’ - total SILENCE!
Where is your outrage? Where is your ‘moral justice’?
Your brain literally changes when you have a child. Research confirms that fetal progenitor cells migrate through the placenta and integrate into various maternal organs, including the brain.
A lot of people don’t realise that they’re being distracted.
Not by one piece of news hiding another, but from your own brain.
Learn this word and it’s meaning : Cognitive Load - your being subverted to weaken you, and most people don’t even know it.
During pregnancy, some of your baby's cells travel to your brain and stay there, creating a permanent physical connection. This shared brain is why your child instinctively turns to you for everything, but it's also why being the default parent feels so exhausting. #parenting
Why teachers are quitting #parenting
The overwhelming feedback from teachers is that parents get upset when the schools try to discipline their kids, but they also do not want to or can’t discipline their kids themselves.
Some teachers said the parents are more focused on being friends with their kids
When we use emotional intensity to drive behavior, we trade short-term compliance for long-term impairment.
Misbehavior is the inevitable outcome.👇
To learn more about disciplining without damage check out my book on the topic here:
www.disciplinewithoutdamage.com
The act of being present and engaged in your child's life is far more valuable than any gift you can buy ❤️
The act of being present and engaged in your child's life is far more valuable than any gift you can buy ❤️