Hey everyone, I'll give you all a reply bcs I trust you with it. I see the callout and I want it know that I'm not agreeing with what was done way back then, without shifting blame or such more to paint a picture of the situation, the friendgroup I was in at hte time encouraged nsfw humor and finding 'haha terrible' stuff and at the time I didn't see any issue with it as long as it was jokey with no actual sexual intent, I no longer engage that way and especially not with minors, I don't speak to minors at length and esp not in DMs bcs I think you should set healthy boundaries like that, I do not consider myself a danger to minors it's something I'd do regardless bcs its just the right thing. I'm certainly not the person I was and I have since addressed it with the person in question, I did put a stop to it myself with them. They agreed and I have not engaged in any behaviour since. I've supported them to do what they'd like and they can speak up if they wanted/made sure they didn't feel repressed or silenced. They were the only person I engaged like that with, the jokes posts partly with the gc, the lovey talk was only with them. It was stupid and I take accountability for stupid actions. I didn't see how fully bad it was at the time, in my head it was overblown by others if it wasnt to us, but again now and you will not have a single account of such behavior since then. It's not who I am, never really was and certainly not now. I hate groomers/pedos and would sincerely never associate. I do not condone that behavior, I'm not like that at all, all these years later with no crumb of such behavior anymore for many years and I avoid speaking with nsfw even with adults nowadays bcs its genuinely not a comfy subject to me. I'm sorry it ever happened it was extremely stupid and immature. I've spent years regretting it and haven't ever had any want to do something similar again. I'm really sorry to anyone I disappointed and tbh looking back I'm disappointed in myself.
screenshot/text ft tts that ends at "I'm disappointed with myself at well" the rest being "I didn't know how stupid it was but I do now. and I'm really really sorry. I'm open to answer any questions and do what I can to help make it better"