As much as I recognize that I have to be okay with being the villain in stories, it still hurts to recognize that certain people don’t really like or support you.

The humidity won’t let my curls be great but it’s my 40th today!

The name alone…following! The health and fitness goals are a bonus. Congrats!

There’s so much that I still want to do or experience in life. Soon come. Soon come.

I’m listening to a Spanish speaking woman gush over a baby’s cheeks on FaceTime. The genuine energy and expression of love is refreshing

Be Your Girl Teedra Moses and KAYTRANADA

When’s the last time you let yourself feel your emotions without calling yourself weak or seeing the experience as a failure?

To find what is right for you, you must let go of what is right for everyone else.

Transformation.

14 days until 40 years…WHEW!!

Have an AMAZING Thursday! We’re almost there!!

I feel you. There’s definitely a fine line. Giving folks space to show and prove makes sense. If it’s no new friends from jump, keep on working Vel 🤗

The opposite can be said if you become more secure when you’re usually anxious, avoidant, or disorganized, that person is great for you. There is a safety/security about them that is helping you heal.

Yes, but something to explain…your attachment style can change from relationship to relationship. If you’re generally secure and you find yourself being more anxious, avoidant, or disorganized with someone, that person in their current presentation isn’t good for you.

The way I sweat these curls out yesterday! Definitely gonna have to go back to mini twists or something to keep the fitness momentum going. No point of redefining them. Gotta get back to it tomorrow.

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H, or a version of it, used to be my go to with a French roll in the back.

My body must have known I was going to need that rest from earlier today.

Guess it’s time to get up and get this breakfast crackin

Nothing pisses me off more than somebody telling me they are going to do something and not do it.

AND DONT LET IT BE UNPROVOKED 😑

These weirdos are going to learn to stop following me around stores.

I know that technically, I’m a ma’am. Whew it bothers me to be called ma’am! Idk why. I appreciate the respect. I think I don’t associate it with my age maybe even though I did when I was their age 🤦🏾‍♀️

So many decisions to make and don’t know where to start with any of them 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

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So, I want to be around a bunch of people…alone. Only if it were festival season. Guess I’ll settle for a park or a mall over the next few days. Ooo! Maybe Little Five Points!

Pickle while you sauté cabbage?

🤣 schadenfreude indeed. The turtle reference has always been perfection

How’s about I looked at it and knew exactly what it was referencing

Agreed!!

Well curls, it was fun while it lasted. Gonna have to put you away so I can stay focused on other things.