In my interview today I may or may not have said that I really miss the wood and my regulars. I of course pointed out how I didn't mean it to come out like that. And well, everyone's face went red. *this post is for the bartenders
But it is with failure that one learns the best lessons. Ok, they weren't all great lessons. And if you read my latest piece on him being a narcissist then it should all make more sense. Either way, my dreams continue to be weird!
Learning to create boundaries was fundamental to my experience in non-monogamy and has extended to many parts of my current experiences. The reality though, was I learned to create boundaries and attempt rule making to ensure my partner didn't make me uncomfortable. I failed, all the freaking time.
Just remembered I had a whole dream sequence about boundaries last night. medium.com/@ghislaine99...
Yesterday was plus 22 and today snow is predicted or freezing rain. Living in my city is NOT for the feint of heart, nor those who do understand layers. Having an interview outside as the storm rolled in was an interesting experience!
This is a gorgeous image!
Be a responsible adult is the worst!
I just want to be on a patio, sipping a beer, soaking in the sunshine. Instead, I am stuck at home, putting words on a page! Harumph.
That was weird, when I uploaded to my business account on Facebook it said it was checking for copyright content. I wonder what the AI machine thinks it's looking for?
Selfie preparing to record a video
So for whatever reason, I kept triggering my camera when practicing for my latest video clip. I swear I laugh in them and am starting to get more relaxed!
I actually guffawed when my boyfriend asked if my post on falling in love with a narcissist was about him... medium.com/@ghislaine99... . It's not, but maybe there is a pattern there? I jest of course, he is the best thing ever, and actually possesses empathy which my ex did NOT!
Well shucks, the post got deleted just as the OP was starting to rage at everyone else. Twas a moment.
Plot twist... OP is stating that they themselves are not white, thus this cannot be a racist statement asking for a white dr for his dad because those accents are easier to understand.
Watching a redditor trying to talk their way out of why asking for a white doctor isn't actually racist. Is it too early for popcorn?
I just googled what that word was. Nope did not see food coming.
A double dose of the D today! The sunshine and the best one ;)
It's wild to think about how this quote made me feel when I was in an open relationship, versus how I feel now in a monogamous one. Perspective truly is everything. And there is no wrong way!!! And I love that for all of us.
Grass is greener quote from Robert Greene
✨️Monday Inspiration
BreakingAwayFromRelationshipNorms.com
Ok Monday... I am ready for you. Wait! I think I am going to sip one more cup of coffee, just in case you throw me anymore curve balls.
Creating an event for couples to reconnect and I was telling my boyfriend how I want it to open to any gender. Without missing a beat, he asked what about throuples? He's definitely my person!!
Yesterday I went thrift shopping for old school board games, for a meet and mingle event I'm developing. I was delighted to discover that almost all of them had all of their pieces! Operation and hungry hippos were a fail, but overall, pretty solid!
Of course the day I post a thirst trap (yesterday) this little app goes all screwy. Co-incidence or simply the universe being its annoying self and making everything I touch hard (no pun intended or is there?).
And on the thread how do I then discover new accounts, and how do people find me?
I already follow??? What the heck am I doing wrong?
I am so confused with the way the algorithm is in this place. My follow list is almost always the same few accounts that I don't have much in common with, and discover seems to be those I interact most with. This makes no sense to me. And how do I meet new accounts if the discover is half people
Remember as a kid when you'd cry and then afterwards you would feel better, and forget what you were crying about? I miss those days! Now, I think, why even cry? It solves nothing, and you never feel better.
I actually thought that writing medium.com/@ghislaine99... would have been enough layers to peel away, and yet, here I am digging even deeper. New article is coming soon...
Yes, but forcing it on people? Training it without peoples knowledge or offering compensation, and then having it pop up on almost every app or product we use is not the way to garnish trust. I maintain that a worthwhile tool shouldn't be forced.