I don't know how to fix it, but I hope I can go some way to humanising and enriching the image of lifestyle-dominant women/femmes.
Final thought: If you want FemDom to be a reality, you have to treat us with a sense of realism.
Every domme has similar stories about being pursued by demanding subs who assume she can -and therefore should - save their lives. About leaving events after being made the de-facto centre of attention without consent by newbies and oldies alike.
"Where are all the genuine female Dommes?" We're here, we just don't come to your events any more because we get mobbed, obsessed-over and treated like 'experience dispensers'.
We know that we're rare, buddy.
It was an absolute cultural touchstone - I wouldn't be who I am today if I hadn't seen it. I think a metal band stole a photo of The Creature for an album cover once...
The JG-Leathers site had a huge, ancient repository of fetish art of varying style and quality - everything from heavy bondage to highly specific niche fantasies. I can't point to a specific piece, but it was my first introduction to serious kink, and it'll always have a place in my heart.
My secret kink: the moment a sub realises I'm smarter than them by a decent margin. The more they feel at peace with it, the wider the IQ gap seems to get.
*yawn*
Good morning. Shall we get started?
God, the years I spent thinking I wasn't good enough to be active on the kink scene or share my stuff online because I wasn't polished, media-savvy or conventionally attractive.
I don't need to be pretty, I have a cage and a big stick. Expect to see more of me.
Experiment 1: Testing a concept that we dreamed up (with some help). A leather strap that locks a body part to a frame, which can be tightened but also be escape-proof. Result: Subject was stretched to his (uncomfortable) limit and movement was minimised. Conclusion: Promising, but needs more data.
It's not an every day thing, but some days just become geared-up days before we know it!
When you're not planning to immobilise him, stuff all his holes full, and edge him until he cries... but then he gives you this look:
"You're married? I don't see a ring on your finger."
Yeah, well, I don't see a steel cage on your husband's cock either - show some commitment.
As for the lasting submissive attitude, six years of ownership have sorted that out :) but the mask is great for seriously headspacing the boy and putting him in a deep "nameless toy with no control over his body" identity.
A bit of both - in the moment it's great to see my sub getting overwhelmed in a really oppressive sensory situation, and I really get off on the reaction. At the same time the size of the plug is perfect for just hitting the start of the gag reflex, so the boy is getting used to that.
If you're not gearing up your subs and taking them raving, what the hell are u doing, bruv? Your boy should know your drink order, check your coat in, keep you hydrated, and carry your heels on the way home.
If you rub two of them together, they have a baby. It's true! My mate did it in the playground!
Mask by @fxtn.co.uk
Sleepsack by @fettersuk.bsky.social
Leather hood by Restricted Senses
"Hey baby, are you nice and full in there? Yeah you are. Now - swallow like a good boy..."
An hour in, the fucktoy is really struggling with the rubber intruders filling its mouth and ass. Gentle words help a little, but it's desperate to be free of the cruel plugs.
Mask by @fxtn.co.uk
Hood by Restricted Senses
Nylon sleepsack by Fetters at @regulation.store
Corset by Leatherotics
Plug harness by Top To Bottom Leathers
Trained boy toy by me ;)
The moment the zip is pulled up is the point of no return. There's no way to free yourself and no way to talk your way out. Everything under the sleepsack stays laced and locked onto your body. What happens to your exposed cock is out of your control. You're just a product to be trained up and used.
Corset Kisses - remainders of an afternoon well spent (and well wrapped).
AI can't truly experience what it is to be horny, and therefore has no place writing smut. Love your writing x
"Aww... Poor baby. There we go, been well used? Good Boy"
Passive mouth training solutions for your sub.
I hope you find your groove again at your own safe pace xxxx
That's what throat training is for! xxx
Any body in nice bondage gear is a perfect body x
Important Fuck Drone instructions: when not in use, access holes MUST be kept lubed, plugged and sealed. Monitor vital signs and sensory responses. Stimulate regularly. Keep blinded and immobilised when not in transit. Prevent unwanted orgasms. Do not release.
Awww, thanks babe 😘 😘 😘 x
Happy two-year wedding anniversary to my perfect boy. You make my life complete, and you make our gear-filled house a home x
Containment vessel
#chastity #chastitybelt #cagecheck #locked #behindbarz
