This is not a full update, but it does impact our finances for the next few weeks. On Wednesday, Mom fell while sorting boxes at the storage center and got her hip, elbow, and chest. On Saturday, her hips hurt so bad they nearly gave out on her at the grocery store and she couldn't walk back from the car without my assistance.
Yesterday (Sunday) | lovingly bullied her to go to urgent care, and then the ER, where we spent most of the afternoon getting imaging and bloodwork done. Thankfully, she has not fractured anything-a real danger at her age-but her hip is badly bruised. She was given several
prescriptions and advised to take it easy for a few weeks in order to heal.
This is very difficult timing for us as Mom's sole source of income (until fruit season resumes, which is also heavy labor) is grocery delivery, but she obviously cannot be walking long distances or lifting heavy items for a little while.
We also have NorWesCon, a sci-fi/fantasy writer's scheduled this weekend. I am a panelist and signing author there and we'd planned to have her as my guest/assistant.
We already paid for the hotel and registration weeks ago and can't cancel it, but I don't even know how we'd go about requesting or getting accommodations for her right now. Conferences don't typically provide wheelchairs if you need one, but we don't have one of our own.
Right now, the idea to deal with this weekend is to have her take it easy at the hotel as often as she can. I don't know what we're gonna do when the weekend is over though because while we planned for three days of no income for her to assist me, we didn't plan on two weeks of no income for recovery.
We are in a really tight financial spot at the moment and in more dire need of support than normal. If you could support this fundraiser or contribute via Venmo (@Lily-Meade-1) or Cashapp (Slilymeade) at this time, it would be really appreciated.
EMERGENCY UPDATE: Mom fell and hurt her hip last week and while (thankfully) it isn’t broken, she needs rest and time to heal. We need some additional support during this time of lost income so we can both focus on her recovery. Please share. ♥️ gofund.me/187754ed5