Don't want male allies to shut up on feminism; we need you to confront where/when we cannot, collect badly behaving bros #HyperMasculAZNs
Constance Wu penned a powerful letter on IG about Hollywood whitewashing, and she's being dragged by #HyperMasculAZNs for her spouse. Whut.
Finally, we need to end double standard in our discourse (fueled by TM logic) that women are defined politically by our sex #HyperMasculAZNs
And also, to whole comm: please care about the deaths of AA women. We have value. #HyperMasculAZNs
We can't find justice for all AA when some are oppressed by virtue of gender. Feminism would right those wrongs, for all. #HyperMasculAZNs
I would love nothing else than for our community to see how feminist principles are inextricably linked to racial justice. #HyperMasculAZNs
Remember that #HyperMasculAZNs is a symptom of TM and White supremacy. We can show rad love to all our AA bros, even those who would hate us
Male allies, please step up in those times, when the burden to combat #HyperMasculAZNs with love and patience becomes difficult.
A5: It is exhausting, debilitating to confront #HyperMasculAZNs on our own esp when it can lead to threats to our physical, or psych safety.
A5: #HyperMasculAZNs are very good at harassing those with identities that are viewed as threatening - women, lgbt folks, etc
A5: many spaces where #HyperMasculAZNs are that women, lgbt folks cannot go. Male allies, we need you to have our backs there.
A5: Wish our comm would be better about openly confronting #HyperMasculAZNs and anti-feminism. Don't leave it just to women to fight alone
Also want to pushback agnst cultural framing that might say AA men are more prone to violence. Not true, or helpful. #HyperMasculAZNs
Acknowledging gender privilege does not alleviate or weaken experiences of racism. It's not a race to be most oppressed. #HyperMasculAZNs
But male privilege is not TM's flawed understanding of manhood. Male priv is not defined solely by access to sex and women. #HyperMasculAZNs
Some in my blog mistake alpha manhood with male privilege. They say "emasculation" stereotypes mean AA men are not priv. #HyperMasculAZNs
Men of colour are disadvantaged by race, but that does not mean that male privilege ceases to apply. #HyperMasculAZNs
A4: Patriarchy is not limited to Whiteness. Male privilege is not just a synonym for White privilege. #HyperMasculAZNs
A3: Raise your hand if you have been personally trolled by #HyperMasculAZNs who seek to invalidate your very existence.
A3: TM justifies stepping over of bodies of dead female or queer AA thru assertion our issues less imprtnt or "distracting" #HyperMasculAZNs
A3: The resistance to feminism and gay rights rationalized by TM stymies political progress for our community. #HyperMasculAZNs
Violence of #HyperMasculAZNs is t always physical. The erasure - of women, non-conforming, gay AA - by TM is political violence.
A3: I coined tern #misogylinity to specifically refer to pursuit of masculinity thru misogynistic performance. #HyperMasculAZNs
A3: They also expose illogic, destructiveness of toxic masculinity on men, and on MOC. These stories end poorly for all. #HyperMasculAZNs
A3: Extreme acts of violence put a sensationalized face on the day-to-day misogyny that TM rationalizes against women, WOC. #HyperMasculAZNs
In AA communities, some end up treating gay men as "lesser than a man." It goes w/out saying how problematic that is. #HyperMasculAZNs
Manhood & queerness are mutually exclusive under TM. This enables breathtaking homophobia, transphobia among TM adherents. #HyperMasculAZNs
Because TM is explicitly coded as straight, it leaves masculinity completely inaccessible to queer men. #HyperMasculAZNs
A2: Too often, we code convos on masculinity & TM along heteronormative, gender-binary lines. This is wrong and erasure. #HyperMasculAZNs
Because in the quest for proof of straight alpha manhood, some are lead to oppose any person or politic that is not that. #HyperMasculAZNs