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Villanova & the now

#fyp #college #university #share #mustsee #theworldtoday #theworld #reaction #feelings #areweok #dystopia

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What are we working on today? #work #slay #goals #areweokay #areweok #checkin #dontquit #teampetty #petty

That’s the work of therapeutic intervention.

That’s why I’ll keep showing up.

That’s why I’ll keep pushing for this approach—every single day.

#TherapeuticParenting #TraumaInformed #AreWeOK

Traumatised children constantly ask, 'Are we OK?' in every relationship.

How we respond shapes their world.

#AreWeOK

Behaviours in traumatised children aren't problems to fix.

They're stories to understand.

#AreWeOK

Relationships aren’t an optional extra—they’re the very core of healing trauma.

Every adult working with traumatised children must ask themselves daily:

#AreWeOK

When a traumatised child acts out, they’re often testing the relationship.

What they’re really asking is: Are you still with me?

#AreWeOK

A traumatised child learns to read relationships before learning maths, reading, or social skills.

The question behind their behaviours: #AreWeOK

Trauma teaches children to monitor relationships constantly:

Is this safe? Am I still cared for?

Adults must understand this invisible question: #AreWeOK

Children who’ve faced trauma don’t think “Am I OK?”

They think “Are we OK?”

Relationships heal trauma.

#AreWeOK