Just because you're no one's first choice doesn't mean you're not worth choosing.
Your value isn't determined by your successes, failures or who does and doesn't choose you; you've experienced life in a way unique to you, which makes you beyond precious.
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You don't realise how much seeing your friends every morning means to you until you wake up one day and basically everyone is asleep.
Sometimes it's strange being in a different timezone, but getting to tell my snacks goodnight when I wake up is always a treat.
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It's okay to be stuck in the dark for a bit, but if the big lights fade, go search for the small lights.
Not the things that brighten your day, but brighten your minutes.
It won't fix it all, but it can help it feel a lot more manageable.
I hope you can all find your little lights.
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When drama hits and life realy feels like it sucks it's important to go back to the small things.
The coffee you enjoy making every morning.
The friend that pokes you to say good morning.
The way your cat purrs when you pet it.
Even just the way your bedsheets are so comfy each night.
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We are all inherently flawed. Some days you will work towards a goal and do everything in your power to reach it.
You will succeed and you will also fail.
And when you fail it will hurt, but get up and try again.
Forgive yourself your failures so you can celebrate your victories.
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