One of my boys was feeling very
stressed out, like he was a failure to me because he wasn’t perfect. So I reminded him that being a f@g means already admitting he’s not perfect, and that means he can let go of the pressure to be perfect.
#kink #bdsm #loveyoursubs
Had time to write a short blog post #bdsm #kink #findom #ethicalfindom #loveyoursubs
gaybdsmfiction.blog/2022/11/19/running-away-...
I just saw a rather incompetently done flogging video, so it’s time to post this again #kinksafety #bdsm #kink #loveyoursubs
http://gaybdsmfiction.blog/2019/10/10/hurt-vs-harm/
Sometimes the best reward is just telling a boy he made your day better. #bdsm #loveyoursubs
There are few things that make me more angry than hearing about a genuinely submissive boy being taken advantage of by a dom who is not giving anything back in return. #loveyoursubs
Any dom who offers his sub crystal meth is not a dom you should trust to play with. A dom has an obligation to look out for his sub's well-being, and giving him a drug as dangerous and addictive as meth is doing the exact opposite. #kinksafety #loveyoursubs #ethicalkink
One of my #cashslaves wanted to tribute more then he could afford. Part of being an #ethicalfindom is protecting the finsub’s finances by knowing when to say no #findom #loveyoursubs
Many subs enjoy feeling weak or feeling like losers. But never assume that’s who they actually are. Some pathetic subs are among the strongest men I know. #loveyoursubs
No sub is worthless, even if some enjoy feeling worthless during a scene. This distinction makes all the difference #loveyoursubs
No sub is worthless, even if some enjoy feeling worthless during a scene. This distinction makes all the difference #loveyoursubs
Your consent should come with fries.
FRIES: Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific.
#ethicalkink #loveyoursubs
Although I have problems with the addiction framing, this is excellent advice for those who want to leave #finsubbing. If you’re an ethical #findom, please think about passing this on to subs who are struggling #ethicalkink #loveyoursubs...
Power exchange starts with the sub #loveyoursubs
