Posts by Ophelia
I have been stalked twice in my life. Once at 21yo while I was in the military and couldn't "just go live somewhere else."
Again, when I was 40-year-old, they even screwed a board across my storm door, so I couldn't open it. I lived 26 miles from town. I was raped. #METOO
Spicy dancer (ex stripper) tip of the day.
Own the room before you say a word. Walk in like you belong there. Shoulders back, slower movements, calm eye contact. People respond to certainty.
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I learned customer service the hard way.
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Spicy dancer (ex stripper) tip of the day.
Clear boundaries are attractive.
“No” delivered calmly and confidently is powerful.
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The audacity. #men #meme #relationship #dating
Spicy dancer (ex stripper) tip of the day.
Confidence is practiced, not natural.
Fake it until your body believes it.
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Oops typo.
Spicy dancer (ex stripper) tip of the day.
Take care of your body like it’s your businesa, because it is.
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Spicy dancer (ex stripper) tip of the day.
The real money is in conversation. The stage gets you seen. Personality gets you paid.
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We are not the same. #dates #fears #meme #firstdate #worry
When you reflect back and wonder if you were on crack… 🤪 #ex #meme #funny #relationship #single
Spicy dancer (ex stripper) tip of the day.
Rejection is part of the job.
It’s rarely personal. They might be broke, shy, or distracted.
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guys never let someone tell u that ur too much of a freak. Kate Bush's record company tried to get her to release something other than Wuthering Heights as her debut single. they said it was too weird & wouldn't chart well. but she didn't listen to them & now she's Kate Bush. never stop being weird
Spicy dancer (ex stripper) tip of the day.
Make exits intentional.
Leaving first (sometimes) keeps your value high.
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This! People are quick to shame those working in sex work but never mention the ones who pay.
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Spicy dancer (ex stripper) tip of the day.
Always know your worth and act like it.
People treat you how you present yourself.
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