A newspaper-style graphic with a photo of man in the top right. The text reads:
My nameās Will, Iām Newbury Prideās Secretary, and Iām so happy to be celebrating LGBT+ History Month here in my hometown.
The landscape for LGBT+ people has changed beyond recognition in my lifetime. Not just the well-publicised victories along the road to legal equality in the age of consent, civil partnerships, adoption, and most recently marriage, but also the widespread acceptance among the general public that LGBT+ people deserve equal treatment and respect (a 2019 poll suggested nearly 86% of Britons believe homosexuality should be accepted by society, about as unanimous a figure as you can hope to achieve on any topic in a free country).
The change, even from my childhood, could not be more profound. I was educated in Newbury, and Iām sorry to say my secondary school environment was virulently homophobic. Sexuality and gender-based bullying was commonplace, and the existence of Section 28āa de facto ban on all discussions of LGBT+ relationships in the classroomāhobbled teachersā ability to properly support their LGBT+ students. Many people seem surprised when told this piece of legislationāfar from being a relic of the 1980s and 90sāremained on the statute books until 2003 in England. I was 15 when it was finally consigned to the dustbin of history, its damage already done.
It wasnāt until university that I felt free to tell the truth about my sexuality; I came out at the relatively late age of 19. I still maintain that coming out was one of the few unambiguously good and sensible decisions I ever made, and the day I came out was one of the happiest of my life.
My hope is that every LGBT+ person gets to experience that happiness, at least once. One of my main motivations for joining Newbury Pride was to create a safe environment for others to experience the happiness and relief I once felt.
LGBT+ History Month is a great time to be thankful for the progress weāve made, andā¦
I wrote a thing about growing up gay in West Berkshire for LGBT+ History Month and Newbury Pride. You can read my shapeless musings below š