The Selfishness of a Blind Eye Is ignoring red flags just passivity, or is it a form of selfishness? In “The Selfishness of a Blind Eye,” Rob explores why we often choose situational blindness when we want a specific…

Is ignoring a red flag just being nice, or is it a form of selfishness? Today on the blog, I'm digging into why we choose situational blindness and how it led to "snowstorms" in my own life—both literal and metaphorical.

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A three-panel "Artist Rendering" triptych. The left panel shows a young boy in a Starfleet uniform looking at a UFO; the center panel is a portrait of an older man with a salt-and-pepper beard in a leather jacket; the right panel shows a hand reaching toward the illuminated Detroit Renaissance Center at dusk. Text at the top reads "Rebuilding Rob: Episode 3" and the bottom reads "Fortune Favors the Bold."

Episode 3: The Audacity of Potential is live.

Stop settling for breadcrumbs. I’m moving the rebuild to the Bridge and leaning into the Nerd Swagger. It’s time to choose Option C—choosing yourself.

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The one where I still don’t get it, part two Is the “Friends” lifestyle the ultimate breadcrumb? In Part 2 of my deep dive, I move past the laugh track to examine the financial lies of 90s New York and the “neutering” …

From the $5,000-a-month apartment lie to the "neutering" of Chandler Bing, I’m looking at why I refuse to lose my identity to a societal script. It’s time to choose Option C.

#Friends #GenX #100PercentPolicy #RebuildingRob

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Is it "moving slowly" or just standing still? I’m auditing the breadcrumbs I’ve been settling for. At 51, I’m realizing that if a relationship isn't 100%, "Option C"—my own peace—is the best path forward.

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#RoadTo1000Days #Midlife #Dating #100PercentPolicy

No More Breadcrumbs After 13 years and 850 consecutive days of writing, I’m drawing a line in the sand. From reclaiming fatherhood traditions to protecting my physical space, I’m implementing a “100% Policy.R…

I’m done taking whatever breadcrumbs are left for me. Whether it’s fatherhood traditions or the space I call home, I’m finally applying my "100% Policy."
If it isn't a "hell yes," it's a "no."

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#100PercentPolicy #NoMoreBreadcrumbs #Growth #Boundaries #Sovereignty