People of color are forced to relate to white characters since there’s so few non white representation on TV. Being gay as well means even less representation that matches our own race and sexuality. #BrandensBoyProblems
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The final straw in my last relationship was my ex continuing to prioritize his family over our relationship. I’ve never been the type that believes family comes before my relationship. #BrandensBoyProblems
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I know I can never handle actually being cheated on. I wasn’t ever able to forgive my ex for two timing me before we even were official. #BrandensBoyProblems
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I used to think my friend was crazy for still basically dating his ex after they broke up, but then I was the same situation with my own ex. Granted my friend was in the complicated stage for over a year. 2 months was all I could take #BrandensBoyProblems
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Noah’s Arc is the only black gay “mainstream” representation the black gay community has gotten. It’s been 20 years since Noah’s Arc ended. and still black gay men are yearning to be the main characters on a series again. #BrandensBoyProblems
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Many gays dread turning 30 because white gays convince you you’re washed up after 30. Luckily black don’t crack, and everyone told me your 30s are just your 20s but with money! #BrandensBoyProblems
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I dumped my ex but then we were basically still dating and doing our usual routine. I was considering getting back together, until the truth came out about something he lied about nearly a year prior. #BrandensBoyProblems
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My longest relationship and longest friendships came to an end because they all lied to me. I don’t lie to people I care about, and I’ll never tolerate them lying to me. #BrandensBoyProblems
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If there ever was a mainstream back gay series I already foresee many black gays hating on it before it premieres. They’ll be complaining about skin color, femininity, body types, etc..one show can’t represent the entire community. #BrandensBoyProblems
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I’m in need of a ho-cation. My top destinations where I always get the most dick are usually Atlanta, Dallas, and Orlando. #BrandensBoyProblems
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We all have dating dealbreakers. Dating after 30 involves having to reevaluate your former dealbreakers, and deciding what you’re willing to tolerate. #BrandensBoyProblems
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I always thought “gay death” at 30 only applies to white gays who are obsessed with youthful twinks. Yet most of my dates occurred before I turned 25, and all my relationships started before I turned 30. #BrandensBoyProblems
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#BrandensBoyProblems Ep 6 - Black Gay Representation
With the way black gay men would rather tear each other down than suooort each other, I doubt there will ever be a black gay equivalent series with the success of #HeatedRivalry.
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Dating apps, the clubs, even the bathhouse were all different experiences in my 20s compared to them now in my 30. I feel like I still hookup more in my 30s, but I hooked up more frequently in my 20s. #BrandensBoyProblems
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The stereotype is fem bottoms usually want older more mature men. I’ve always dated younger than me for the most part. My preference is within 5 years of my age, but I usually end up with younger men. #BrandensBoyProblems
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Most of the bears I want seem to be in open/poly relationships. If I limited myself to only single guys, options would be few and far between. #BrandensBoyProblems
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We’re not meant to be everyone’s type. If someone says they’re not attracted to a quality you possess, attempting to cyber bully them isn’t going to change their type. #BrandensBoyProblems
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I’ve hooked up with many cheating souses before, but as far as I know I don’t believe I’ve broken anyone up. At least not immediately. #BrandensBoyProblems
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Jumping back in the dating pool can be a struggle, but it’s a much needed fresh start. It will most likely take multiple bad dates until you start having good ones. But keep hope alive. #BrandensBoyProblems
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I knew the dick was too toxic when I told him I had an STI, and he wanted me to postpone getting treated so we could hookup more. #BrandensBoyProblems
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I’m so over black gays leaving hate comments under any post of a black gay person in an interracial relationship. Fat, fem, artsy, and alternative black gays have better luck finding love interracially than in the black gay world. #BrandensBoyProblems
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I didn’t embrace my blackness until my mid 20s. That’s when I started going to black gay clubs, making black gay friends, and watching black gay webseries, and discovered the importance of black gay pride. #BrandensBoyProblems
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The downside of having a slutty reputation is too many men I have no interest in think I’m sexually interested in them just from having a casual convo. I do want platonic friends. #BrandensBoyProblems
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My friends are all sluts like me, so we don’t cock block each other. So I can’t stand when I want a man, and his friends try to cockblock. #BrandensBoyProblems
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Only in the black gay community do you get accused of hating yourself and your community for wanting better for yourself and your community. I don’t want to be a poz statistic or date one because I want better for myself. #BrandensBoyProblems
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Our preferences are shaped by prejudice. I do believe the reason I’ve never been attracted to fit/skinny men is due to my pozphobia. Skinny gays remind me of gays wasting away from AIDS. I want a big thick healthy looking man. #BrandensBoyProblems
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Pride season will be here before we know it. 2026 is flying by. I have no idea what the world will be like this summer. I still want to travel and have fun though. #BrandensBoyProblems
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This year will mark 5 years being single. I thought I was ready to love again, but the way my life and the world is currently a mess. A relationship isn’t on my priority list. #BrandensBoyProblems
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I’ve never seen white, Latino, or Asian gays bullying their own races for not wanting to date guys with HIV. Yet as a black gay man when I say I don’t want to date poz men, I get hundreds of hate messages from my fellow black gays. #BrandensBoyProblems
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