Started sharing early chapters of my book on conscious relationship design with alpha readers.

Best line so far: “It sounds like a book I’d see in a bookstore.”

I’ll take that as fuel to keep going. 💛

#Writing #ConsciousRelationshipDesign

A client co-leading a major project spent years feeling small—stuck in an unhealthy relationship and overshadowed by louder male co-leads.

She ended the relationship, claimed equal space in the project on stage, and the room applauded. 💛

#coaching #leadership #consciousrelationshipdesign

Editing taught me something about intimacy.

It’s about asking what belongs between us now - and what can move to the margins?

I mean patterns + expectations, not people.

What’s one tiny pattern you’d love to gently edit? 💛

#ConsciousRelationshipDesign

On a self-imposed #writing retreat this week: early mornings, too much coffee ☕️, long walks between drafting sprints.

Turning years of work on #consciousrelationshipdesign into short, accessible book chapters.

If you could redesign one relationship in your life, which would it be?

Designing relationships ≈ designing anything worth keeping: prototype, test, learn, repeat. ✍️💛

#ConsciousRelationshipDesign

We design our work, our homes, our time — why not our relationships?

Conscious Relationship Design Coaching = curiosity, communication, evolution. 💛

3 free 30-minute sessions next week. DM “design” for info.

#ConsciousRelationshipDesign #Coaching

Writing is research, listening, sailing, walking, disappearing — then a page appears. ✍️💛

#WritingCommunity #ConsciousRelationshipDesign #BookWriting

“As the digital and human realms intertwine, the potential for AI to enrich our relationships is profound — and imminent.” 🤖💙

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#Writing #ConsciousRelationshipDesign #FutureOfLove

Writing a book on Conscious Relationship Design - how we can design relationships and connection on purpose.

Looking for a few alpha readers.

Curious? DM me. 📚💛 #WritingCommunity #ConsciousRelationshipDesign
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🎯 My TEDx talk hit #1 Editor's Pick last week!

25k+ views in 6 days.

The response? People are thinking about how they can DESIGN their relationships instead of accepting default scripts.

Watch: youtu.be/USeLTbvHdnw

#ConsciousRelationshipDesign #TED #Relationships
TED: Ideas Change Everything

You don't love all your partners equally.

You don't give all your friends equal attention.

You never will.

Stop pretending.

Start designing for it.

consciousrelationshipdesign.substack.com/p/who-gets-y... #consciousrelationshipdesign

I've been failing ... spectacularly And ... I'm back, with stories from the field, to tell

Me: gives TEDx talk about desire & #consciousrelationshipdesign

Life: "Cool. Now do it."

Me: "Wait, what—"

Life: "DO. IT."

[12 mos. of spectacular failing ensues]

Anyway, I'm back with stories and a huge wallop of humility.

Full debrief: consciousrelationshipdesign.substack.com/p/ive-been-f...

💡What if marriage came with an upgrade option? We wrote a 20‑yr re‑eval clause—now 4‑ & 5‑yr “fixed‑term” contracts are buzzing.

Forever isn’t automatic; it’s designed.

How long would yours be? 👉 substack.com/profile/2949...

#ConsciousRelationshipDesign #MarriageDesign

💡 Does Your Truth Matter?

What if you speak, but no one listens?
What if your words vanish, unheard?

This month in Hit Pause, Then Play, I explore why we must speak anyway.

📖 Read → hitpause.substack.com/p/a-teeny-ti...

💬 Ever felt this? Drop a ✨.

#ConsciousRelationshipDesign #TruthTelling