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I accidentally sent my friend a screenshot of a group chat where we were talking about her. She blocked me instantly. I didn’t say the worst stuff, but now the group’s a mess. Should I reach out & apologize or let the friendship die quietly? Am I fake for even being in the chat?
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UPDATE:
I proposed to my boyfriend despite everyone telling me not to. It was a perfect proposal but he said NO in front of everyone and later said he “doesn’t believe in marriage” but he proposed to his ex years ago. Now I’m embarrassed & I don’t know if I should wait or leave?
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Last week my man said the annual couples trip was canceled, but today my newly divorced female neighbor thanked me for the extended invite. I was confused because I never knew the trip was still on. Turns out, my husband invited her. Do I pull up or wait for him to come home? 🤔
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I cut off a fake bestie years ago, no drama, just distance. Now she’s STILL bringing me up, throwing subs, and acting like I did her dirty. Meanwhile, I don’t even think about her. Should I clear the air or let her keep beefing with herself?
- Living rent free in her head
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My best friend’s man stays in my DMs liking pics, flirting, even asking to “see me” while she was out of town.
I showed her receipts & she said I misread it. Now she’s acting funny to me & he’s unsending messages.
Do I try again or let her learn the hard way? What would you do?
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I’m a plus-sized black woman and dating feels like a losing game. Men either fetishize me or make my weight the dealbreaker. The last guy told me I’d be perfect if I lost weight. Do I change myself to find love, or wait for someone who loves me as I am? What’s your advice?
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My partner wants to show affection publicly, but I’m not ready to do that yet. The thought of holding hands or kissing in public terrifies me. How do I handle this discomfort without hurting him? He thinks I may need therapy.
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My husband has been secretly seeing another woman, and I found out through a text he accidentally left behind. I’m devastated and feel betrayed. He has other secret children and I’m 7 mon pregnant. How do I cope with the heartbreak and decide whether to stay or leave? #ItGirlsHelp
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I’m a 27 year old gay man dating someone amazing, but I’m scared to come out. My family is religious, and rejection feels unbearable. My partner’s tired of being my secret, but fear keeps me stuck. How do I find courage when living my truth could cost me everything? #ItGirlsHelp
