Someday we’ll talk about how coercive polyamory/NM among cis gay/queer/bi men often weaponizes sex to avoid intimacy—and reenacts harm.

Slowed-down, emotionally present love isn’t mononormative—it’s protective.

Cis queer men can, & should, do better.
#WilderOpinion #QueerRelating #RelationalEthics