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Communities need resources. Let's start there. #ReclaimingSafety

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Angela Burton gives an example of what #LivingAbolitionNow can look like when we promote healing and accountability within our communities, without punishment and policing. #ReclaimingSafety

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Reclaiming Safety for Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse - upEND Movement Drawing on the wisdom of survivors, Asgarian posits powerful questions that challenge us to respond more humanely to child sexual harm in ways that prioritize youth agency, center healing, and hold…

"Conservative politicians lean on tropes about 'groomers' and 'pedophiles' that drum up support from a wide swath of Americans... And the laws are getting increasingly punitive.” #ReclaimingSafety @strawburriez.bsky.social buff.ly/esqjYKI

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Reclaiming Safety for Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse - upEND Movement Drawing on the wisdom of survivors, Asgarian posits powerful questions that challenge us to respond more humanely to child sexual harm in ways that prioritize youth agency, center healing, and hold…

"You might say that the dismal statistics about child sexual abuse point to the need for more #familypolicing, more state interference. But if you listen closely, many survivors are saying that’s not what they need or want at all.” #ReclaimingSafety buff.ly/esqjYKI

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Reclaiming Safety for Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse - upEND Movement Drawing on the wisdom of survivors, Asgarian posits powerful questions that challenge us to respond more humanely to child sexual harm in ways that prioritize youth agency, center healing, and hold…

"Child sexual abuse is a lot more common than many people realize. One landmark CDC study found that one in four girls and one in six boys experience sexual abuse before they turn 18,” reports @strawburriez.bsky.social #ReclaimingSafety buff.ly/esqjYKI

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Reclaiming Safety - upEND Movement

What questions have you wrestled with around #FamilyPolicing and #Abolition? How can we help?

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Reclaiming Safety for Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse - upEND Movement Drawing on the wisdom of survivors, Asgarian posits powerful questions that challenge us to respond more humanely to child sexual harm in ways that prioritize youth agency, center healing, and hold…

We’re always asked, “If we abolish the family policing system, what do we do when children are sexually abused?”

This paper is an answer. Read our latest #ReclaimingSafety installment by journalist Roxanna Asgarian. #FamilyPolicing #Abolition

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Post image Starting Points to Consider More Humane Ways to Respond to Child Sexual Harm: 1) Survivor-focused, 2) Community-oriented, 3) Safety planning, 4) Transformation and Accountability, 5) Healing spaces for each impacted person.

Starting Points to Consider More Humane Ways to Respond to Child Sexual Harm: 1) Survivor-focused, 2) Community-oriented, 3) Safety planning, 4) Transformation and Accountability, 5) Healing spaces for each impacted person.

When harm occurs, we should consider responses that
- provide safety and support
- honor family and community relationships with empathy and compassion
- value healing, connection, accountability, and care

#ReclaimingSafety

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Reclaiming Safety - upEND Movement

This essay is the latest in our #ReclaimingSafety series that explores difficult, frequently asked questions about the abolition of the #familypolicingsystem. buff.ly/eZrm6sy

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Reclaiming Safety for Children of Parents with Disabilities - upEND Movement Justice for parents with disabilities and their children first and foremost means power to exert lived experience expertise about one’s own situation, condition, and wellbeing.

We’re excited to share the next essay in our #ReclaimingSafety series! Read “Reclaiming Safety for Children of Parents with Disabilities" by Charisa Smith. Editors Angela Burton and @alandettlaff.com

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Hesitation
by Eira Quinn

She doesn’t hate men.
She has loved them—
their softness, their steadiness,
the quiet ways they showed up
without needing applause.
But she’s also had to survive them.
She’s walked home with her heart in her throat,
keys clenched like weapons.
She’s stayed polite in elevators,
in Ubers, at work—
because safety sometimes looks like smiling.
She’s had to say
“I have a boyfriend”
when “no” wasn’t enough.
She’s had to laugh at jokes
that made her skin crawl
because the man telling them
didn’t like being corrected.
She doesn’t hate men.
But she hesitates.
She studies the room.
She wonders if safety is earned
or borrowed—
and what it will cost her this time.
Because love isn’t always safety.
And too many of them were boys
who never learned how to sit with fear
without making someone else carry it.
So no—
She doesn’t hate men.
But she does live in a world shaped by what they were allowed to do.
And she’s still trying to unlearn what she had to become
just to survive them.

Hesitation by Eira Quinn She doesn’t hate men. She has loved them— their softness, their steadiness, the quiet ways they showed up without needing applause. But she’s also had to survive them. She’s walked home with her heart in her throat, keys clenched like weapons. She’s stayed polite in elevators, in Ubers, at work— because safety sometimes looks like smiling. She’s had to say “I have a boyfriend” when “no” wasn’t enough. She’s had to laugh at jokes that made her skin crawl because the man telling them didn’t like being corrected. She doesn’t hate men. But she hesitates. She studies the room. She wonders if safety is earned or borrowed— and what it will cost her this time. Because love isn’t always safety. And too many of them were boys who never learned how to sit with fear without making someone else carry it. So no— She doesn’t hate men. But she does live in a world shaped by what they were allowed to do. And she’s still trying to unlearn what she had to become just to survive them.

To all the women who’ve learned to navigate the world with caution, but never lost their softness or strength—this one’s for you. 💛

#WomenEmpowerment #SurvivalAndStrength #FeministPoetry #BreakingTheSilence #HealingThroughWords #InclusiveFeminism #ReclaimingSafety #LoveAndSurvival #FeminismForAll

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