“Love is needing someone. Love is putting up with someone's bad qualities because they somehow complete you.” ―Sarah Dessen (1970- ) Found in “This Lullaby” #writerslift #life #authors #love #art #coffee #diary #write #books #amwriting #quotes #sarahdessen In "This Lullaby," Sarah Dessen offers a definition of love that feels grounded in reality rather than fantasy. This line is spoken by the protagonist, Remy Starr, as she wrestles with her skepticism about love and her gradual realization that real relationships involve vulnerability and imperfection. The quote reflects a turning point in her emotional development and understanding of connection. Instead of portraying love as flawless or effortless, the quote acknowledges that love involves accepting another person fully, including their imperfections. It suggests that love isn’t about finding someone perfect, but about finding someone whose flaws don’t diminish the bond, and may even strengthen it. Real connection grows not from idealized perfection, but from mutual acceptance and emotional honesty. This perspective challenges the common myth that love should always feel easy or pristine. Instead, it recognizes that love deepens when two people allow themselves to be seen completely and still choose each other. The idea that someone can “complete you” doesn’t mean dependency in a literal sense, but rather an emotional one, where another person fills spaces in your life you didn’t know were empty. In this way, love becomes less about perfection and more about presence, understanding, and shared humanity.
“Love is needing someone. Love is putting up with someone's bad qualities because they somehow complete you.”
―Sarah Dessen (1970- )
Found in “This Lullaby”
#writerslift #life #authors #love #art #coffee #diary #write #books #amwriting #quotes #sarahdessen