rebtoz.blogspot.com/2025/05/albe... Psychological 'shithood' is where we land when we believe we need others approval rather than prefer it. BAD, breaking approval dependence, isn't easy so why not start in early childhood where children can be taught #unconditionalselfacceptance #HaveaGoSpaghettio!
People learn that they're ok only if others say or think they are. Once established, this habit of thinking can cause severe psychological upset. Children can learn what they do and how others view them, 'is' not them. #unconditionalselfacceptance #REBT #earlychildhood
youtu.be/8GKI2I8A2kk Early childhood application of Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy principles in daily teaching practice.
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Break Approval Dependence (BAD) It is healthy 2 want others approval but absolutely needing it 2 feel worthwhile can put us at risk. #UnconditionalSelfAcceptance is something that will help us when our sense of self is challenged. It takes work but it can be done. rebtoz.blogspot.com/2023/01/brea...
www.educationtoday.com.au/news-detail/... Was Jack Horner a good boy? No he wasn't! A child asked me 'am I good' & I told him he wasn't good or bad though he could do good & bad things, but he was always worthwhile. We're not what we do nor are we what others think of us #unconditionalselfacceptance