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Perception can be the be all and end all of a person's life, a wrong perception can cause their life to fall apart just because of a mistake or rumors.

So always try to find the truth yourself before making assumptions on others.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #Perception #Rumor #Wellbeing #Life

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Some times in life people let us down as they are not the people we thought they were, either because our expectations were to high or they were hiding something.

Don't let those people ruin your perception of other.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #Trust #Perception #LetDown

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Don't confuse kindness for friendship, those who are kind to you may do so with a purpose such as a means of gain.
Both will support you but only one is real.

Learn the difference between friendship and Aquaintence.

#Wisdom #WiseSage #Wisdom #Friendship #Aquaintence #MoreThanTheEyeCanSee

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It's good to have a friends even if it's just one, they can brighten your day and set you on the right path or follow you as you Forge your own.
They may not be the politest or the most forgiving but they will always have your back when you need it.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom
#PreciousFriends

Remember we all have a hidden strength within us and in times of need we should tap in to that blazing inferno and push through what ever blocks our way foward.
So don't fall back yet, your stronger than you think.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #Motivational #FireWithin #Onwards #InnerStrength

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In life we don't get always get what we want and many cannot accept that in a negative way.

Either fight for what you want or work towards it or accept what is given, just don't cause problems for others if you cannot get it.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom

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There are lack luster days we all feel exhausted, more so in some cases than others.
It's good to remember to give yourself a break and to do things at a more regulated pace that suits yourself best before you wear yourself down to nothing.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #Exhaustion #Pacing #TakeABreak

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Take pleasure in the simple things in life, the air you breathe, the food you eat and the people you meet.
Also appreciate the simple things such as a roof over your head, heating to keep you warm on those cold days and clean water to drink.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #Appreciation #SimpleThings

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At times life can seem overwhelming and you want to shutdown, isolate or explode.
But what's needed at this point is simply perspective and space, so step back and breathe.
It will open your eyes and mind and will help you feel better.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #Overwhelmed #Perspective #Breathe

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Never judge a book by it's cover, commonly known phrase that not many take seriously.
A hardback book can seem solid and stern only to have lovely soft and colourful pages inside.
You never know until you open it up and turn the pages.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #BookCover #Judgement #SerfaceLevel

Why are we so afraid to accept fault in ourselves, mistakes are made and we must learn from them.
Accepting your mistakes and faults can lead to growth as a person and prevent such things happening again.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #Acceptance #Fault #Mistakes #OnlyHuman

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Social interaction can be tiring, especially when your not used to it so remember to do it in small bursts or you will tire yourself out quickly and your social battery will be low and you will not want to try again.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #SocialActivity #SocialBattery
#Socialise #NewPeople

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As you get old it's seems harder to make new friends and acquaintances, but in reality it's fear that prevents us.
The fear of the new and fear of rejection, so try and fight back that fear and try you will be surprised how nice people can be.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #FightTheFear #NewFriends

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Thought things seem to get harder, it's all just another day.
So don't feel down hearted, things tend to follow a pattern of highs and lows.
So if your in a low now it will bounce back.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #ThingsCanGetBetter

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Learn your triggers, what makes you explode and react rather than respond.
If you find these you learn how best to manage them, cooling your temperament and finding you panic less.
So breathe and take a step back.

#Advice #WiseSage #StepBack #Triggers #Wellbeing #MentalHealth #Betterment

Fear. It comes from our deep rooted survival instinct to be aware of the unknown and dangerous.
Most fears come from a lack of understanding while others from penetration like needles and fangs.
Some seem to have no reason at all, it's natural to have some fear.

#Wisdom #Fear #WiseSage #Unknown

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Life goes on even of we don't want it to so its easy to get lost in the tide of changes, to have regrets and missing your happier days.
But it's best to move foward rather than sit stuck in the past, why waste your life over something you will regain.

#Advice #WiseSage #Wisdom #Onward #Regret #Past

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Trust! Something easy to gain but harder to regain when lost.
When you have been through the ringer of life as I have you find it hard to trust especially online.
A simple ask of a recent photo or a video call shouldn't be too much to ask to ease an weary mind.

#Advice #WiseSage #TrustIssues
#Proof

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When you overcome a lot of pain and turmoil in your life you eventually talk about it so much it has no hold on you, it becomes just a story of reflection, an accompaniment of what you have overcome.

It does get better I promise

#Wisdom #Advice #WiseSage #Overcome #Endure #Survive

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In many case words are never enough, but a little empathy can go a long way.
Sometimes you need reveal your pain to help others feel safe to release theirs.
So give a little Empathy to those who need it.

#Advice #WiseSage #Empathy

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Getting some frsh air every day can be a world changing thing, because we are not creatures to be contained.
We all need to get out now and then even if it's to smell the air or to look at the beautiful sky, or just to listen to the rain drops as they hit the leaves.

#Advice #WiseSage #Outdoors

No one person does a world make, it through the joining of ideas and connection of souls that we create the world around us.
I hope one day to find that connection and build a wold for the two of us.

#Love #Longing #Souls #Relationship #World #Wisdom #WiseSage

It is possible to care to much, so much so that you neglect yourself for the sake of those you care for.
But you must remember there is a limit because touch caring can drag you down to a pit of despair as you get taken advantage of.

So care but in moderation and care for yourself too.

#WiseSage

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I strive for betterment of myself, to learn from mistakes and do better for myself mentally, physically and spiritually.

But many will judge you by your mistakes even if you became a better person for making them.

I don't judge I listen.

#Wisdom #WiseSage #Betterment #Wellbeing #MentalHealth

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They say we can be what we want to be, but that isn't true.
We feel the need to shape ourselves to conform to society standards to a certain degree.

We may think we're Alt or different in some way but in the end we're just moving with a trend.

So did we become what we wanted truly?

#WiseSage

We as humans are born with and endless Longing...
Longing for companionship, acceptance or meaning.

It's your choice of what to fill that void with whether it be objects, connections, faith or selfworth.

But be careful to leave room for the important things.

#Advice #WiseSage #Longing

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Many Wonder if life is ordained Fate or by freedom of choice, but what if it is both.

What of certain events are predestined while others are for us to choose in between.

Make your choice wisely...

#Advice #WiseSage #Fate #FreedomOfChoice #FreeWill #YourChoice #Contemplation

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Never laugh at those who have faith, whether it's in God, Allah, Jahova, Norse gods, or Wicken beliefs, it brings them comfort in times of the unknown and uncertainty.

You may believe or not but don't force your idealisms on others, let them get comfort their own way.

#Wisdom #WiseSage #Beliefs

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I am not ashamed to say I keep my Teddy bear near by to help me sleep life can be lonely when you don't have someone to cuddle at night.

It's important to not feel alone and to feel that someone loves, even if it's just a stuffed toy you cuddle at night.

#Advice #WiseSage #TeddyBear #Love #Lonely

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Remember to take a break every so often because you need it, life is hard enough without you wearing yourself down.
So sit down, put your feet up, drink a hot beverage and just...
...relax.

#Advice #WiseSage #TimeOut #Relax #SlowDown #Tea #Coffee #HotChocolate