Chae Yong-ju says, "What if I keep wavering like this" She lays sideways next to Yun Min-ju on the floor of his meditation space. She has an arm on his chest and is snuggling a little with him. She wears a black jean jacket with a white t-shirt underneath and a watch and her eyes are half open as she looks toward his shoulder. He wears a gray sweater and looks toward the ceiling; we see him in profile. There are abstract shapes in the foreground.

Chae Yong-ju says, "and eventually collapse?" She lays sideways next to Yun Min-ju on top of his arm which rests in the foreground on her shoulder. They both lay on the floor of his meditation space. She wears a black jean jacket and he wears a soft black or dark gray button up shirt over a gray sweater. t-shirt. His eyes are closed as if resting.

Yun Min-ju says, "Then we can just hold hands tightly and collapse together." Chae Yong-ju lays sideways next to him and on top of his arm which rests in the foreground on her shoulder. They both lay on the floor of his meditation space. She wears a black jean jacket and he wears a soft black or dark gray button up shirt over a gray sweater. t-shirt. His eyes are closed as if resting.

🚨 That aside, #YunMinJu responds to #ChaeYongJu 's concerns in a poetic, beautiful way. If she collapses, he asserts, "Then we can just hold hands tightly & collapse together." He's accepts & loves her wavering self, & is willing to be there with her. He is her #RideOrDie. 🖤 #BrewingLove #kdrama

Chae Yong-ju says, "I thought I was someone unshakeable." She lays on Yun Min-ju's arm and holds his hand. They both lay on the ground in his meditation room. His face is not pictured. She wears a black jean jacket and a white t-shirt. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju says, "I'm not usually like this." She lays on Yun Min-ju's arm and holds his hand. They both lay on the ground in his meditation room. His face is not pictured. She wears a black jean jacket and a white t-shirt. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-Ju says, "It's because you haven't reflected on yourself." One of his arms is under his head. They both lay on the ground in his meditation room. He wears a dark gray or soft black button-up shirt over a light gray shirt. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-Ju says, "that's why you're lost." One of his arms is under his head. They both lay on the ground in his meditation room. He wears a dark gray or soft black button-up shirt over a light gray shirt. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

🚨 I wish #YunMinJu asked questions like if #ChaeYongJu reflected on herself before instead of telling her that was her issue. Even if she hasn't felt this way before, it's normal for people to go through periods of indecisiveness & being shaken throughout their lives. #BrewingLove #kdrama

🚨 When one is sensitive it's hard to find middle ground. But I do think #YunMinJu sets himself up for more painful interactions by not sharing or communicating. He doesn't want #ChaeYongJu to know him as fully as he assumes to & she believes he know(s) about her. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Yun Min-ju's profile is seen. He looks serious. He wears a light brown or taupe sweater over a white t-shirt. He standing inside his living room. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

🚨 I am all for self-preservation: #YunMinJu has to protect himself, & he's entitled to act as needed, but he doesn't extend the same courtesy to #ChaeYongJu. He keeps himself from her, instead of fully trusting her; meanwhile he invades her boundaries & wants her to emote. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Yun Min-ju says to Chae Yong-ju (not pictured), "when I know how painful it is." He wears a white t-shirt and light brown or taupe sweater over it. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says to Chae Yong-ju (not pictured), "it feels like my heart is being torn apart" He wears a white t-shirt and light brown or taupe sweater over it. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says to Chae Yong-ju, "and if you're struggling because of me," He wears a light brown or taupe sweater while she wears a black jacket over a white and gray striped shirt. They stand in a house and there are pictures and a sconce on the wall behind them. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says to Chae Yong-ju (not pictured), "then I feel that again." He wears a white t-shirt and light brown or taupe sweater over it. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

🚨 #YunMinJu complicatedly reasons that if he communicates his emotions to #ChaeYongJu & she responds emotionally, he will feel it, & it will hurt himself even more. So as much as he is protecting her from pain, he's ultimately protecting himself from blowback. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Chae Yong-ju and Yun Min-ju sit at a table in a restaurant with food to ear on the it. She thinks, "I don't know anything unless he says it." Yun Min-ju's hand holds a fork that he is using for his pasta. She holds a utensil and moves towards a salad with her hand. They both look down at their food. He wears a black jacket over a white t-shirt and she wears a light blue sweater top over a button-up white shirt. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju and Yun Min-ju sit at a table in a restaurant with food to ear on the it. She thinks, "But Min Ju says everything's fine." Yun Min-ju's hand holds a fork that he is using for his pasta. She holds a utensil and moves towards a salad with her hand. They both look down at their food. He wears a black jacket over a white t-shirt and she wears a light blue sweater top over a button-up white shirt. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju says to Yun Min-ju, "Should I just keep on being the person who never knows anything?" They are standing in his house. She has a questioning, unsettled look on her face and wears a dark gray shirt over a white shirt. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju says to Yun Min-ju (not pictured), "It was my sincere intention to be together." They are standing in his house. She has a serious look on her face and wears a dark gray shirt. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

🚨 #ChaeYongJu promotes a 50/50 relationship, but #YunMinJu continues to make her feel indebted. He's been operating that way since he found out she saved his life. He has trouble letting her be an equal partner & fails to communicate his feelings effectively; he hides himself. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Chae Yong-ju (not pictured) thinks, "Min Ju adjusts everything to me". We see Yun Min-ju's hands pouring her a drink into a glass. There is a place setting and a vase of flowers on the table. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju (not pictured) thinks, "He knows everything about me, even without my saying a word." Yun Min-ju's hand is outstretched and a glass now in her. hands There are flowers in a vase on the table. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju (not pictured) thinks, "What kinds of words I want to hear. He feels everything." We see Yun Min-ju looking at her. They are sitting inside a restaurant. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju looks at Yun Min-ju (not pictured) thinks, "Sometimes he knows me better than I do." They are sitting inside a restaurant. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

🚨 #ChaeYongJu worries #YunMinJu is catering to her. She thinks, "He knows everything about me, even without me saying a word." It's dangerous to give someone else so much power & credit. Is he sensitive? Yes, but he sometimes furthers his own interests instead of her needs . #BrewingLove #kdrama

Yun Min-ju says "Looking at those two," He wears a brown button-up shirt and looks toward his father and younger brother (both not pictured). Only a sliver of the top of Chae Yong-ju's head is seen. This is from Brewing Love the kdrama.

Yun Min-ju says "why does it feel like I'm the one being comforted?" He wears a brown button-up shirt and looks toward his father and younger brother (both not pictured). Only a sliver of the top of Chae Yong-ju's head is seen. This is from Brewing Love the kdrama.

Yun Min-ju wears a brown button-up shirt and gray pants, Chae Yong-ju wearing a white button-up shirt over a white t-shirt with tan pants. They look toward his father and younger brother who sleep side-by-side on a matress on the floor lying in the same positions. They are inside of a house with a tv, small kitchen and sleep on the living room floor. This is from Brewing Love the kdrama.

🚨 #YunMinJu & his father reconcile, seek to know one another better, and overcome past conflicts. In these moments, #ChaeYongJu helped him get in touch with himself and heal instead of the other way around by thrusting them together. It's lovely to see his father soften. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Yun Min-ju's father says to him (not pictured), "You seem to know the ins and outs of people well enough." His father wears a white button-up shirt with a light gray blue suit jacket over it and glasses. There are blurry trees and grass seen in the background as they are sitting outside. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju's father says to him (not pictured), "But you don't understand your father's heart" His father wears a white button-up shirt with a light gray blue suit jacket over it and glasses. There are blurry trees and lights seen in the background as they are sitting outside. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says to his father (not pictured), "I have never once" He wears a orange-brown (sort of burnt orange) button-up shirt open at the neck. There are blurry trees, lights, and grass seen in the background as they are sitting outside. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says to his father (not pictured), "tried to understand" He wears a orange-brown (sort of burnt orange) button-up shirt open at the neck. There are blurry trees, lights, and grass seen in the background as they are sitting outside. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

🚨 Finally, #YunMinJu recognizes that, though he is extra sensitive, he is not sensitive to everyone equally or at all to some & he might misunderstand or choose not to understand people & situations. It is important he learn not be so cocksure about his sensitivity radar. #BrewingLove #kdrama

🚨 #ChaeYongJu lightly calling #YunMinJu out shares a relationship isn't a one-way street where you think about & do things for a person, & they can't for you. In saying she won't be "carelessly curious" or guess as to his past, she says don't do it to mine either, please. 🖤 #BrewingLove #kdrama

Chae Yong-ju says, "What we're going to build together in the future is more important." She speaks to Yun Min-ju, who is not pictured. She wears a light blue and white striped button-up shirt that is open. She sits in his meditation space with a curtain behind her, but the background is blurry. This is from Brewing Love, the kdrama.

Chae Yong-ju says, "I don't think we need to know every pain we've just managed to forget..." She speaks to Yun Min-ju, who looks toward her. She wears a light blue and white striped button-up shirt that is open. They sit in his meditation space with a blurry background. This is from Brewing Love, the kdrama.

Chae Yong-ju says, "I won't carelessly be curious about the time you've endured" She speaks to Yun Min-ju, who is not pictured. She wears a light blue and white striped button-up shirt that is open. She sits in his meditation space with a curtain behind her, but the background is blurry. This is from Brewing Love, the kdrama.

🚨 #YunMinJu asks why she doesn't ask about his past. #ChaeYongJu won't "carelessly be curious" & sees him in the now. She tells him she is going to take him somewhere he'll love, & "Why do I always have to take it," a push back to his light controlling of their relationship. #BrewingLove #kdrama

🚨 Viewed innocently it's advice to find beauty in the everyday, but based on #YunMinJu 's comments, telling her how she should think, what she should say and explore as well as her accepting his words, I'm suspicious that this script is pushing her into a box. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Yun Min-ju says, "You cooked the soup well" Chae Yong-ju wears a light blue sweater and he wears white shirt. They sit at the dinner table in her home. There is a table cloth and food on the table. There are cabinets, a stove, and microwave in the background. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "Instead of just saying "I like this music," say something like" He wears white button-up shirt with stripes and a white t-shirt underneath. He points his chopstick toward Chae Yong Ju (not pictured). He sits at the dinner table in her home. There are cabinets, a stove, and microwave in the background. This is from the kdrama,

Yun Min-ju says, "I especially like listening to music while having a cup of coffee" He wears white button-up shirt with stripes and a white t-shirt underneath. He points his chopstick toward Chae Yong Ju (not pictured). He sits at the dinner table in her home. There are cabinets, a stove, and microwave in the background. This is from the kdrama,

Yun Min-ju says, "in a pretty mug on a rainy day." He wears white button-up shirt with stripes and a white t-shirt underneath. He sits at the dinner table in her home. There are cabinets, a stove, and microwave in the background. This is from the kdrama,

🚨 While some of #YunMinJu 's actions can be viewed as thoughtful & sweet, they can be irritating from a woman 's perspective. After he "approves" the dinner that she cooked, he says what she SHOULD say & tells her to appreciate pretty things. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Chae Yong-ju says, "But are you really not going? Aren't you busy?" to Yun Min-ju. We see his back and he wears a white t-shirt. She wears a pastel pink button-up shirt and cream pants. She stands in the doorway of her house and holds a travel mug and bag. This is from Brewing Love, the kdrama.

Yun Min-ju says, "I'm busy. I have a lot to do." to Chae Yong-ju. He wears a white t-shirt and looks toward Chae who is mostly off-screen. He stands inside her door. This is from Brewing Love, the kdrama.

Yun Min-ju sits on a chair near her desk opens a box which is on the floor of her bedroom. Chae is not home. A mirror rests against the side of the wall, there are closet doors behind him. The bed is in the foreground.

Yun Min-ju sits on a chair and places a photo on Chae's desk. Chae is not home. There are closet doors behind him and a small lamp and a few other items on her desk. Her bedroom is very bare.

🚨 #YunMinJu stays in her apartment, opens a tucked-away box, & places things around her room. This could be viewed as sweet, but it's an invasion of privacy. She may have not wanted to look at those things or they might have brought her pain, but he unpacks them without asking. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Chae Yong-ju says, "Why are you going in there?" as she runs after Yun Min-ju who is walking into her bedroom. Chae is in front of the kitchen and diniing area of the home she once shared with her grandmother. We see the cabinets and refridgerator, the stove and a table with a chair at it. Chae wears a white t-shirt and blue jeans. Yun has his back to us and stands in her bedroom as he wears a long sleeve shirt and black pants. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju stands in the doorway of her bedroom behind Yun Min-ju who has walked inside it. The kitchen and dining area of the home she once shared with her grandmother is pictured, and we see the cabinets and refridgerator, the stove and a table with a chair at it. Chae wears a white t-shirt and blue jeans. Yun has his back to us and is barely visible behind Chae. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju stands against a blank tan or taupe colored wall in Chae Yong-ju's bedroom and thinks, "I will find everything for you from now on." He wears a button up white lightly striped shirt and black-rimmed glasses. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju stands against a blank tan or taupe colored wall in Chae Yong-ju's bedroom and thinks, "what you like." He wears a button up white lightly striped shirt and black-rimmed glasses. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

🚨Unfortunately, #YunMinJu keeps crossing #ChaeYongJu boundaries making her uncomfortable. He thinks he knows what's best for her & controls her by invading her space mentally and physically. The writers turn Chae into a shell that needs a man to breathe life into her. #BrewingLove #kdrama

🚨 These are moments when #YunMinJu 's sensitivity shines. He affirms #ChaeYongJu . With him, she doesn't have to guard her emotions or keep from expressing them. He is someone who doesn't mind holding space for her. It's a safe space, a comforting, embracing & willing one. 🖤 #BrewingLove #kdrama

Chae Yong-ju says, "You know I have something to tell you." while looking downward. She is speaking to Yun Min-ju, who stands in front of her wearing a muted reddish button-up shirt or jacket. They are outside and blurry trees can be seen in the background. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju says, "I love you." while looking upward toward the right where a sliver of Yun Min-ju's face is seen. Her eyes appear wet. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "I have loved you" while looking towards Chae Yong-ju. We see only a sliver of her head on the left. They are outside and blurry trees and a light can be seen in the background. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "without a single moment of hesitation." while looking towards Chae Yong-ju. We see only a sliver of her head on the left. They are outside and blurry trees and a light can be seen in the background. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

🚨 As #ChaeYongJu gets in touch with her emotions, we see her blossom. She finds courage to express her feelings & let herself be open and at risk emotionally. #YunMinJu allays any concerns she may have by expressing he has loved her thoroughly & unequivocally. 🖤 #BrewingLove #kdrama

Yun Min-ju cries as he hugs Chae Yong-ju. Her thoughts are "This person" He wears a black suit with a white button-up shirt. These are funeral clothes. His eyes are clothes and his mouth is open in grief. His arm wraps around Chae, of whom we only see the back of her head. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju is being hugged by Yun Min-ju and her thoughts are "cares more about me than I do." He wears a black suit, and we see only his back. These are funeral clothes. Her eyes are half open and tearful in grief. Chae wears a white bow in her hair. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

🚨 As #YunMinJu cries, #ChaeYongJu begins to as well. This heartfelt moment when we see how much Yun cares for her, feels her emotions and expresses them with her is so important. He makes it okay for her to be vulnerable emotionally, something she finds it hard to do. #kdrama #BrewingLove

Yun Min-ju (not pictured) says, "When something's funny, they just think "Ah, this is so funny," and laugh." Chae Yong-ju wears black funeral robes with white embroidery on the collar and a white bow in her hair. She looks towards Yun. There are shrubs in the background out of focus. They are sitting outside. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "So it's okay to cry with all your heart." He wears a black suit with a white button-up shirt and black tie. These are funeral clothes. He looks towards Chae (not pictured). There are shrubs in the background out of focus. He sits outside. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "when you need to." He wears a black suit with a white button-up shirt and black tie. She wears a black funeral robe and a white bow in her hair. Yun looks towards Chae, sho seems to be smiling a little. There are shrubs in the background that are out of focus. They sit outside. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

🚨 #YunMinJu tells #ChaeYongJu she doesn't have to hold her emotions in. That she can naturally let them out when they arise & process them. This lovely scene shows his sensitivity is helpful, supportive, & kind & his sentiments are reminiscent of her grandmother's words. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Chae Yong-ju says, "Bear it alone, Chae Yong Ju. You were always the best at enduring alone." She wears a white t-shirt. We see her pink cellphone screen superimposed on the left and it shows Yun Min-ju's contact as if she's about to make a call. She is in her bedroom. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "It seems like she's intentionally trying to play tough again" while looking at his phone. He wears tan shirt and he stands in his living room in front of a wall with curtains and a lit sconce. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "I know I shouldn't put pressure on her." He wears tan shirt and he stands in his living room in front of a wall with wood shelves with magazines on it. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "But how long am I supposed to wait?" He wears tan shirt and he stands in his living room in front of a wall with wood shelves with magazines on it. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

🚨 Should #ChaeYongJu have to bear everything alone, no, but would our FL crumple so completely irl, doubtful. #YunMinJu 's words about her playing tough seem doubly to mean playing hard to get. He's concerned about her handling things alone, but devolves into self-concern. #BrewingLove #kdrama

🚨 The drunk scene is supposed to be funny & perhaps a little cute as #YunMinJu and #OhChanHwi trade concerns about the women they are in love with & what to do. #OChanHwi, in contrast to Yun, seems ok due to past context, Yun Min-ju's comments make one more concerned. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Yun Min-ju says, "What do you think of someone who can't wait for that?" He is drunk and the area around his eyes is red. He wears a white t-shirt with a gray sweater with a black button over the t-shirt. He sits on the floor in his living room. His medium brown orange sofa is seen behind him as well as a room divider. Oh Chan-Hwi's shoulder is seen to the right; he wears a brown jacket. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "What if she asks me to wait for 1 month, 2 months, 3 months, 4 months," He is drunk and the area around his eyes is red. He wears a white t-shirt with a gray sweater with a black button over the t-shirt. He sits on the floor in his living room. His medium brown orange sofa is seen behind him as well as a room divider. Oh Chan-Hwi is seen to the right; he wears a brown jacket. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "and then ends up rejecting me?" He is drunk and the area around his eyes is red. He wears a white t-shirt with a gray sweater with a black button over the t-shirt. He sits on the floor in his living room. His medium brown orange sofa is seen behind him as well as a room divider. Oh Chan-Hwi's shoulder is seen to the right; he wears a brown jacket. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "What am I supposed to do then?" He is drunk and the area around his eyes is red. He wears a white t-shirt with a gray sweater with a black button over the t-shirt. He sits on the floor in his living room. His medium brown orange sofa is seen behind him as well as a room divider. Oh Chan-Hwi's shoulder is seen to the right; he wears a brown jacket. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

🚨 #YunMinJu petulantly complains about waiting & ultimately, asks his friend, Oh Chan-hwi, what he is supposed to do if Chae Yong-ju rejects him. He is drunk, but, regardless, this is a manbaby: what about me? This is unfair. His true feelings seem to say, she owes me love. #BrewingLove #Kdrama

Chae Yong-ju says, "Right now, I'm so confused." She is speaking to Yun Min-ju. who is not pictured. She wears a denim jacket. They are outside and blurry trees are seen in the background. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

🚨 ...of the time she requested to process her feelings. Sure, a sensitive person can be selfish sometimes, too, but what we're seeing is #YunMinJu steamrolling #ChaeJongYu. He pressured her privately, intimately first and now, publicly. He's replaced her sureness with doubt. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Chae Yong-ju says, "Try to do something about it," emphatically. Yun Min-ju smiles at her without concern. He wears a white t-shirt. She wears his blue and yellow plaid shirt on her shoulders where he placed it, and over her shirt. Her shirt looks white here making them look like they are in matching couple wear beneath his shirt on her shoulders. There is a metal sink and metal cooking pots in the background. There are beers in front of them. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju says, "We're really not anything, right?". Yun Min-ju smiles at her without concern. He wears a white t-shirt. She wears his blue and yellow plaid shirt on her shoulders where he placed it, and over her shirt. Her shirt looks white here making them look like they are in matching couple wear beneath his shirt on her shoulders. There is a metal sink and metal cooking pots in the background. There are beers in front of them. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "Oh, come on, let's have a drink." Chae Yong-ju looks at him in disbelief. He wears a white t-shirt. She wears his blue and yellow plaid shirt on her shoulders where he placed it, and over her shirt. Her shirt looks white here making them look like they are in matching couple wear beneath his shirt on her shoulders. There is a metal sink and metal cooking pots in the background. There are beers in front of them. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju says, "You're being so openly kind and friendly to me that the villagers are misunderstanding." He wears yellow and blue plaid shirt. She wears her shirt underneath a denim jacket or over shirt. They are outside now. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

🚨 #ChaeYongJu pleads with him to be clear, but #YunMinJu deflects all the while smiling. He's secretly pleased the townspeople see them as a couple, but this also means he's enjoying her discomfort. He's not being sensitive to her emotions, requests, or needs in this moment. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Chae Yong-ju says, "It seems like there's some misunderstanding. Nothing happened between us..." She is speaking to the townspeople (not pictured). She wears Yun Min-Ju's yellow and blue plaid shirt on her shoulders and over her light blue or whitish shirt. It looks like there is a sink and table in the background. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju says, "We're nothing to each other." She is speaking to the townspeople (not pictured). She holds her hand up and waves it to wave away their suspicion. She wears Yun Min-Ju's yellow and blue plaid shirt on her shoulders and over her light blue or whitish shirt. It looks like there is a sink and table in the background. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Chae Yong-ju says, "We're just colleagues." She is speaking to the townspeople (not pictured). She wears Yun Min-Ju's yellow and blue plaid shirt on her shoulders and over her light blue or whitish shirt. It looks like there is a sink and table in the background. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "Yes, well, it's what she says." He is speaking to the townspeople (not pictured). Yun Min-Ju's wears only his white t-shirt. It looks like there is a table in the background and metal containers. This is a screenshot from the kdrama Brewing Love.

🚨Unfortunately, #YunMinJu presses #ChaeYongJu publicly, by making them appear as a couple in front of others. He places his shirt on her shoulders, usually a kind, boyfriend move, but here as a metaphor for him eclipsing her. He undermines her assertion they are colleagues only. #BrewingLove #kdrama

Will #YunMinJu go on to show good behavior, he will. By designating him as full green, we don't acknowledge that he shows seriously questionable behavior that needs to be changed. We normalize red flag behaviors he shows as ok and acceptable, even make them seem desirable, & that is very dangerous.

Meanwhile, a character being labeled a green flag, such as #YunMinJu, is blinding watchers to some of his behavior which is less considerate, or honest. He assumes he knows someone else's feelings and uses that knowledge to force intimate connection on someone, who is not on board. #BrewingLove

Whereas the #Nevertheless characters are singles connected through lust or love at first sight, #ChaeYongJu and #YunMinJu are work colleagues, who have bonded somewhat through that & are linked by their past connection, but they don't both seem ready to jump abruptly into a love relationship.

Though #ParkJaeEon touches #Nabi lightly when they 1st met, she didn't shy away from it, didn't slap his hand away; she stays in a conversation with him. She's curious, interested, & seeks him out. They both sensed a hot connection. #ChaeYongJu & #YunMinJu have a work & past non-love connection.

Yun Min-ju says, "You mean you're still unsure about your own feelings, right?" Chae Yong-ju wears a light blue shirt and he wears a yellow and plaid shirt. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "Take your time to consider" Chae Yong-ju wears a light blue shirt and he wears a yellow and plaid shirt. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

Yun Min-ju says, "I'm good at waiting, you know." Chae Yong-ju wears a light blue shirt and he wears a yellow and plaid shirt. This is from the kdrama, Brewing Love.

🚨To his credit, #YunMinJu says he will wait for her to consider her thoughts, but this should have been part of the discussion before he kissed her. It's not, because he supposedly "knows" what she wants before she does. How is this different from a guy who says "She wanted it." #BrewingLove #kdrama