Loving someone with ADHD means understanding that overwhelm, distraction, or shutdowns aren’t personal — they’re neurological. Support doesn’t come from fixing or correcting, but from patience, clarity, and emotional safety.

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Close up of a dinner bowl of edamame, avacado, fried tofu, mango & cilantro salsa, on rice drizzled with siracha & mayo

A few years ago while doing a kitchen remodel I made a meal plan that changed my life. I learned if I do all the planning, grocery shopping, and writing down the plan on a shared calendar, my #ADHDpartner will make the meal and I get to eat amazing dinners like this tofu rice bowl.

Anyone else? It’s the impulsivity between the two of us that’s really made us have a lot of very interesting decisions and situations because neither of us will be thinking things through properly even if we think we did 😅😂
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