“Boysober” eine Pause vom Dating machen
Es wird ja täglich irgendwo eine neuer Begriff erfunden, jetzt bin ich auf "Boysober" gestoßen, zB in dem Artikel hier Die Einleitung klang schon nach etwas was man hier gut besprechen kann: Datingtrend gegen das Daten: #boysober: Immer mehr junge Frauen…
#boysober: Immer mehr junge Frauen schwören aufs "Entgiften" von Männern https://wp.me/p36Ae-1fAp Schwere Zeiten für Männer. Ein neuer Datingtrend sorgt dafür, dass mehr und mehr Frauen dem anderen Geschlecht abschwören. #boysober
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LIVE: Why more young women are going “#boysober” this cuffing season (Video) Cuffing season is here — but for many young women, having a boyfriend is out. From the viral British Vogue piece to TikTok trends and therapy talk, experts say dating burnout is real and being single has become the n
Badge des 18 mois, issu de l’application I am sober.
Dix-huit mois sans sexe. Ça fait tellement de bien que je vise les cent quatre vingt mois. (Quelle paix, mais quelle paix, bon Dieu.) #BoySober
As I understand it #boysober is literally avoiding romantic/sex relationships with all men.
I suspect that many arent going this longterm 100% - although thats literally whats happened in S Korea...
Also if feminist women really do #boysober properly we're going way of original #boysober country, S Korea, & end up with a birth rate of 0.7 per women.
This'll be great for home affordability & environment but with non feminist women having the babies is unlikely to lead to a more liberal society.
I dont neccessarily see #boysober as anti men.
However, as ive banged on about for years, I do see it as a inevitable & indeed predicted consequence of dating apps - which *in theory* favor women but in fact are gamed by high status men.. thus effectively killing off large chunks of dating culture.
Theres a logical point here.
If liberal/feminist women are really going #boysober in the west then you'll have a situation like in S Korea where birth rate has dropped to 0.7 per women. Where presumably the women having children are consevative ones.
This is unlikely to lead to a feminist society.
The current birth rate in South Korea is 0.7 per woman. Makes Japan seem baby-booming.
Presumably many of those having 2+children are conservative/religious women.
In other words upshot of #boysober is a rapidly declining population where majority of children are raised in conservative families.
Of all the current debates this is one the silliest.
How will #boysober change the west?
Easy.
It will dramatically increase the child gap btwn feminist (& presumably majority liberal) women and conservative and/or religious women.
This isnt going to lead to a more liberal, feminist society.
I don’t often weigh in on Anything, but I read (as much as I could) about #boysober and I just think…
Do people fall in love anymore? Do people have the capacity to love anymore?
How to navigate a relationship? How to comfort someone, to compromise, to listen and care unabashedly?
It unsettles me
Boyfriends are cringe. But is the #boysober trend a feminist reclamation or a neoconservative tilt? | Lisa Portolan
Boyfriends are cringe. But is the #boysober trend a feminist reclamation or a neoconservative tilt? | Lisa Portolan
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Auf tik-tok trendet gerade "Boy Sober", also "nüchtern von Jungs sein". - Bericht von Isabell Kramer
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Der Grundfehler ist die Annahme, man könne Erwachsene irgendwie verbiegen. Die denken, sie könnten aus einem Stier ein Capybara machen und sind dann frustriert, wenn sie scheitern 😂 Wenn Du auf Capybaras stehst (die sind übrigens echt cool!), dann such Dir eins und keinen Stier. #boysober
Die Grundannahme, dass die Frau, so wie sie ist, perfekt ist, und der Mann der misogyne, Unvollkommene, der umerzogen werden werden muss. Ich denke, das ist das Grundproblem dieser Frauen, denen ich wirklich trotzdem von Herzen eine schöne #boysober Zeit wünsche.
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China's falling birth rate meets a #boysober dating revolution
Across China, a growing number of young heterosexual women are fed up with traditional pressures around marriage and sexism and choosing to stay single.
www.abc.net.au/news/2025-06...
China's falling birth rate meets a #boysober dating revolution: www.abc.net.au/news/2025-06-07/china-bo...
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