Tori (Victoria)

@loamandlonging.bsky.social

1 year ago

maybe it's because i grew up incredibly poor and multi ethnic from an immigrant family, but I never ever have thought to ask permission before doing something. you learn from a very young age that you have to take what you want because no one is going to offer it to you. #indo #indische #dutchindo

Tori (Victoria)

@loamandlonging.bsky.social

1 year ago

Yes I was socialized as a woman, but definitely not in that white-woman-and-now-i-fawn-for-everything-way. More in the you-want-a-paksklap-I'll-give-it-to-you kind of way. #dutchindo

Tori (Victoria)

@loamandlonging.bsky.social

1 year ago

I love being Indo and part of a diverse culture that yells at their men and their men eat it up. #indo #indische #dutchindo