A person is standing by a lake in the snow wearing a black hat, black jacket, black skirt, fishnets, and black boots. They face away from the camera looking out over a pond with geese in it at trees in the distance.
Summary: Believe it or not, I’ve still been searching for myself in this community. I never really had a goal in mind when I started posting other than earning some validation. Y’all have been so kind to me since then, and I feel more confident than I imagined. Thank you ♥️ I have a better idea of what I can do, but I’m happy to share my experiences and give tips to anyone who wants them. I hope you’ll do the same! I’ve struggled with accepting myself for a long time due to the sexualization of femboys. Health problems meant I never had the “typical” body type, so I felt I couldn’t be one. I’ve always valued emotional over sexual connection and tried making nsfw content, but it didn’t bring me happiness. These things made me feel like an outsider. When I decided nobody else could define my identity, I began opening up more. We each decide who we are and what makes us happy. Recently, there’s been a lot of dialogue around sfw vs. nsfw content. I’ll keep making sfw content, but I respect how empowering nsfw content can be. I love my nsfw mutuals and the stuff you create! Still, I think many would agree there’s a big imbalance between sfw and nsfw femboy content, which is why I choose to create sfw content. I encourage others to reflect on what they needed to see as adolescents. Maybe strike a balance and remember to destigmatize femboys as more than just sexual beings. Even my naughtiest friends have moments outside of that space. My goal is to be the person my younger self needed. I’m still growing into myself, but I’m proud to be part of a community that values growth and challenging norms. We support and learn from one another, exchanging tips and inspiration to normalize self-expression. We all deserve to be our most authentic selves.
Long post ahead (I kinda ate in the last paragraph ngl)
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