when i was younger, he would thump my butt when i bent down to get something out of the fridge. it was a game to him. it wasnt sexual, but it wasnt okay, either.
its the fact that he explicitly ignored my #autonomy and right to say no. and that isnt #forgivable.
#toxicparent #nope
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