As a newborn, your mother is taken away and a new woman and family put in her place. Years later you discover that you’ve been living with strangers and your mother and family are out there somewhere and you’re supposed to be grateful. That’s being a late discovery adoptee. #latediscoveryadoptee
Big News! Myth of the Ghost Kingdom, which I scored, is now streaming free for Amazon Prime members.
If you have Prime, you can watch it tonight.
#MythOfTheGhostKingdom #PrimeVideo #LateDiscoveryAdoptee #AdoptionStories #AdopteeVoices
Not telling a person they are adopted is the only child abuse people are expected to be grateful for.
#adopteevoices #latediscoveryadoptee
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Two phone calls changed my life. The first one said to ask my parents what lie they’d told me for 20 years. The next call was 38 years later - it was my mother…
#adoptionstory #latediscoveryadoptee #adopteevoices
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“You shall not lie” taught so many parents lying to their adopted child about the most important thing…
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First in a two-part series on the incredible, award-winning family drama MYTH OF THE GHOST KINGDOM: #indiefilm #filmmaking #familydrama #drama #adoption #latediscoveryadoptee
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I’ve always had June 21st memorized as my aunt’s birthday but she was an adoptive aunt. Today is actually my uncle’s birthday that I didn’t even know existed and passed away before I found my family.
#adoption #trauma #latediscoveryadoptee
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I found out today that my adoptive parents knew both of my parents’ names my whole life but took those names to their graves. The birth certificate should never be changed so adoptive parents can’t abuse their child by lying to them.
#latediscoveryadoptee #adoption
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New blog about being a late discovery adoptee…
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As a late discovery adoptee, I feel like my whole life has been being a pawn in other people’s games and a puppet in other people’s stories.
#latediscoveryadoptee #adoptee #Adoption
Concealing an adoptee’s identity is not love it’s abuse. It’s not ‘difficult’ for the person lying. It’s convenient. #adoptee #latediscoveryadoptee
Lying to an adoptee is not ‘protecting’ them - it’s manipulation and control.
#latediscoveryadoptee #itsabuse
What does it mean to be a late discovery adoptee? It means your parents were the first people to lie to you.
#latediscoveryadoptee #adopteevoices #adoption
Lying to someone is not love.
Concealing a person’s identity is abuse.
#adopteevoices #latediscoveryadoptee
One of the worse kinds of abuse is manipulating a child’s mind - that’s what lying to a child and not telling them they are adopted is.
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When people feel like you’re not worth telling the truth to, you feel worthless.
#latediscoveryadoptee #adoptee #trauma
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I’ve had to realize twice in my life that the people I thought loved me only loved how much I loved them - once as a wife and now as an adoptee.
#adoptee #latediscoveryadoptee
Lies don’t ‘protect’ an adoptee - they control them.
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A DNA test taken to learn about health risks led him to discover, at the age of 66, that the parents he grew up with were not his biological parents. He had been adopted. #LateDiscoveryAdoptee #adoptees #GeneticGenealogy
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What does it mean to be a late discovery adoptee? It means your parents were the first people to lie to you.
#latediscoveryadoptee #adopteevoices
Not telling a child they are adopted is abuse. Period.
#latediscoveryadoptee #adoptee
Being a late discovery adoptee is like the obliviate curse from HP - your family has been erased from your existence.
#latediscoveryadoptee #adopteevoices
I am now on Bluseky. This time I plan to have just one account for all my thoughts.
#adoptee #latediscoveryadoptee