Hi if you ever find yourself in a relationship saying anything along the lines of "well I can't leave cause I would never be able to find something better than this because I'm trans/fat/aging/antisocial/unlucky" I beg of you to run. Please. You can find and build better but in order to do that you have to take the first step out the door. You do not have to endure abuse, mistreatment, or just plain incompatibility for the sake of a fraction of happiness. You don't. This post has ended multiple shitty relationships. Reblog it to end even more

I spent 14 years in a horribly abusive relationship.

We met, through a friend when I was freshly 18. Allow me just to say that I had absolutely no business dating anyone - not in the horrible mental and emotional state I was in at the time.

#bpd #twabusiverelationship #narcissisticabuse

Once again, because an ex cannot release their claws from my soul - they continue to keep emailing me about progress on their life..

..painting our "relationship" as a fairytale romance and not the traumatic shit storm it actually was.

#twabusiverelationship #twabuse #depression #narcissisticabuse