Yonah and Alphinaud, smiling together in Living Memory
Yonah and Alphinaud represent a very honest, vulnerable, open sort of relationship. They both have very strict moral compasses that drive them, and are fortunate enough to have those ideals primarily overlap.
They both have a very strong sense of justice and wish to bring a safe comfort to the people of Eorzea and eventually, the lands beyond. Both find joy in seeing the happiness in others, and will do all they can to ensure they can preserve that happiness.
Yonah and Alphinaud also both hold high value in their personal relationships. Though both began their journeys not really finding the reason to pursue friendships, they quickly realised that the strength they have with others I much greater than the sum of its parts. Both have a close knit group of friends that they would give anything to protect.
Alongside their personal beliefs, they also had similar goals when it came to romance: They wanted one partner to love with their whole heart that loved them back just as wholly, they both held high importance to the idea of an Eternal Bond, a commitment acknowledged by The Twelve, and both wanted a place to call home, even while remaining on the road most of the time.
Both had the desire to start a family, and were open and honest with one another about this. They very much wanted the sort of families that they felt they lacked when they were younger, namely, both having workaholic, primarily absent fathers and somewhat of a disconnect from their family that led them both to want to be very involved in their future children's lives.
Yonah is reckless compared to Alphinaud, and is more willing to run in headfirst without a plan if there's any sort of urgency to the tasks, which has caused a few breaks in communication that's led to minor spats and arguments early in their relationship. Alphinaud felt Yonah would rush into things and wind up hurt, and more than once had to bail her out of situations she rushed into that ended up being more than she could handle alone.
Alphinaud is very much the tactician of the two of them, opting to lay out his ideas in full before marching into action. This, again, led to a few disagreements early on, with Yonah feeling Alphinaud had no sense of urgency during high stress situations, where Alphinaud was just trying to progress safely, without putting lives in jeopardy.
Over their years together they found ways to compromise on this. Yonah verbalizing her ideas in less urgent scenarios before rushing in headfirst to give Alphinaud a moment to come up with a more cohesive plan. Yonah verbalizing her intentions during higher-stress situations also gives him an idea of how to work in a way that complements Yonah's actions. This has worked to their benefit in both their relationship in their mundane, day-to-day lives and on the field. Their communication strengthened significantly once they made this minor change.
They have a comfortable, supportive dynamic that allows them to be true to themselves in both the good times and bad, knowing that the other will be there for them when they need it.
Yonah's love language is a mix of gift giving and physical touch, whereas Alphinaud's is a mix of acts of service and words of affirmation. Others around them find them overly sappy at times, but can overlook it seeing how happy they make one another.
When they aren't able to spend quality time together, or even travel together, they both ensure they set aside time to spend calling the other. Linkpearl calls are a near daily ritual of theirs when they find themselves on opposite ends of the star.
All in all, their relationship is both inwardly and outwardly healthy, with the two of them finding a good balance of time together and time apart. Yonah is somewhat codependent, but is able to function on her own, whereas Alphinaud is very independent but is also very thoughtful when it comes to Yonah.
I decided to take some time to write down the core dynamics for the main two ships I feature on this account.
Of course, the alt text is the text pasted from the Notepad document I wrote this down in.
First up: Yonah and Alphinaud. The slow burn ship.
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