8-325 | Narcissism, Gaslighting & The Truth About Why You Doubt Yourself - Inspire Change with Gunter

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8-325 | Narcissism, Gaslighting & The Truth About Why You Doubt Yourself In this episode of Inspire Change with Gunter, we explore the complex and often misunderstood dynamics of gaslighting, narcissism, and what it truly means to be in a healthy relationship.Gaslighting is more than manipulation—it’s a process that destabilizes your sense of reality, gradually eroding your confidence in what you know to be true. Gunter breaks down how this dynamic operates, why it’s so effective, and how to recognize it before it takes hold.The conversation also examines narcissism—not as a label to assign, but as a defensive structure that can shape behavior in relationships. By understanding what’s underneath these patterns, we can move away from reaction and toward clarity.Importantly, this episode also addresses common misinterpretations—such as confusing neurodivergent traits with manipulation—and highlights the need for discernment rather than assumption.At its core, this is a conversation about reclaiming your internal authority.Through the lens of emotional intelligence and self-awareness, Gunter outlines the foundational elements of healthy relationships—built on love, respect, cooperation, and the ability to repair when things go wrong.Because clarity isn’t just about seeing others clearly—it’s about learning to trust yourself again. In This Episode • What gaslighting is and how it destabilizes your sense of reality • Why narcissism functions as a defensive structure • The difference between manipulation and neurodivergent behavior • How masculinity socialization can impact emotional expression• The core values of healthy relationships: love, respect, and cooperation • The four capacities of healthy relationships: reality recognition, accountability, empathy, and repair • How to rebuild clarity, boundaries, and self-trust Key Insights“ "Gaslighting erodes your internal authority.” “Autism does not inherently involve manipulation.” “Ask yourself, what do I know to be true?” Gratitude Hello to all our listeners, we thank you for tuning in and promotingsupportingpositive social change, which This makes you a part of Gunter’s efforts in transforming not only men's lives but lives in general and we are grateful you have joined us.  This week we would like to  our shoutout goes to Pittsburgh, St. Mary's, Philadelphia, and Altoona (al-toon-uh) and St. Mary's for bringing Pennsylvania all the wayto #1 on our top 10 USA listeners list!  For our Global Listeners List, we wanted to shout out our listeners in Phuket (poo-ket) for getting Thailand into the top 20 for the first time EVER at #17! CONGRATULATIONS!!! We thank you so much for your continued support as we appreciate your efforts toward positive social change! I, DeVonna Prinzi the Co-Exec Producer and our Show-runner Miranda Spigener-Sapon sincerely thank you and ask that you please take the time to like, follow, subscribe, and share as your efforts make a difference to everyone here at Inspire Change with Gunter. If these stories resinate with you and you would like to engage more with Gunter and the Inspire Change team, please consider joining our Patreon community, where our members find bonus content and early access to video episodes! Membership awaits at Patreon.com/inspirechange. As always thank you to each and every one of our listeners, and most importantly please keep Inspiring positive social change.

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Why do some relationships leave you doubting your own truth?

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Inspire Change with Gunter 8-324 | Inside the Manosphere_ Power, Identity & What’s Missing In this episode of Inspire Change with Gunter, we take a deeper look inside the cultural phenomenon known as the Manosphere, through the lens of Louis Theroux’s documentary.Gunter explores the appeal, messaging, and psychological underpinnings of this growing movement—examining why these ideas resonate with so many men, and what they reveal about modern struggles with identity, purpose, and belonging.At the heart of the conversation is a framework for understanding masculinity beyond surface-level labels. By unpacking the dynamics of power, vulnerability, and social conditioning, this episode offers a more nuanced perspective on the forces shaping male identity today.Drawing on concepts such as Rutger Bregman’s idea of moral ambition, Gunter also points toward pathways that move beyond reactive or defensive models of masculinity—toward something more intentional, grounded, and socially constructive.This is not just a critique, but an invitation to rethink what masculinity can become. This week we uncover.. .• The five patriarchal pillars: territory, hierarchy, acquisition, competition, and combativeness. • Why the Manosphere’s messaging resonates with so many men. • The psychological drivers behind toxic and defensive masculinity. • How vulnerability is reframed—and often rejected—within these spaces. • Rutger Bregman’s concept of moral ambition and its relevance today. • Pathways toward meaningful masculinity and positive social contribution Key Insights “The documentary shows how widespread these ideas are. ”“Women are the problem, softness is weakness.” “The Manosphere offers a defense against vulnerability.” Gratitude Hello to all our listeners, we thank you for tuning in and supporting positive social change, which makes you a part of Gunter’s efforts in transforming not only men's lives but lives in general and we are grateful you have joined us.  This week we would like to share our gratitude with our listeners from Louisville for bringing Kentucky to #9 on our top 10 USA listeners list. CONGRATULATIONS!!! We thank you so much for your continued support as we appreciate your efforts toward positive social change! I, DeVonna Prinzi the Co-Exec Producer and our Show-runner Miranda Spigener-Sapon sincerely thank you and ask that you please take the time to like, follow, subscribe, and share as your efforts make a difference to everyone here at Inspire Change with Gunter. We would love to hear your stories of social change and ask that you to reach out to the show directly. Please see the show-notes for our contact information.  We look forward to hearing from you! If these stories resinate with you and you would like to engage more with Gunter and the Inspire Change team, please consider joining our Patreon community, where our members find bonus content and early access to video episodes! Membership awaits at Patreon.com/inspirechange, thats (Spell it out) As always thank you to each and every one of our listeners, and most importantly please keep Inspiring positive social change. 

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What’s really behind the rise of the #Manosphere? A preview of this week’s #InspireChange w/Gunter@goodmengreat.bsky.social an @iheartmedia.bsky.social @spreaker.com #BonfireCinema #podcast explore power identity what’s missing. WantMore? JoinPatreon starts at $1:
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‘Trust Your Instincts’: Says Student After Meningitis Caused Amputations: A university student who lost both lower legs and parts of her fingers after contracting meningitis is urging others to take symptoms…… #TrustYourInstincts #MeningitisAwareness #StudentStories #HealthEducation #InspireChange

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Why do so many #men ignore #stress tools—even when they need them most?

This week on #InspireChange w/ #GunterSwoboda @goodmengreat.bsky.social an @iheartmedia.bsky.social @spreaker.com #BonfireCinema #podcast we explore why—and 3 ways to fix it.

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Inspire Change with Gunter 8-323 | Why Men Ignore Stress Tools (And 3 Ways to Fix It) Why do so many men struggle to engage with stress management tools—even when they need them most? In this episode of Inspire Change with Gunter, Gunter Swoboda explores the gap between men and effective stress regulation, revealing how biology, psychology, and social conditioning all play a role in why many traditional approaches fall short. Rather than offering one-size-fits-all solutions, this conversation breaks down three evidence-based strategies tailored specifically to how men are wired—physiologically, psychologically, and socially. From sleep and exercise to reframing mental health as performance, to the critical role of connection, this episode offers practical insights into what actually works—and why. Because when stress goes unmanaged, it doesn’t just impact the individual—it affects relationships, communities, and long-term health. In This Episode • Why men underuse stress management tools • The role of biology, cortisol, and nervous system regulation • Why sleep is foundational—not optional • Physiological strategies: exercise, breathing, recovery • Psychological approaches: ACT, CBT, and problem-solving • Why reframing mental health as performance increases engagement • The hidden risk of social isolation in men • How connection and support improve long-term resilience Key Insights “Sleep is a biological necessity, not just a recovery strategy." “Framing mental health as performance enhancement increases engagement.” “Social isolation is as risky as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.” Chapters/Topics Discussed Introduction and Context The Need for Gender-Specific Interventions Research on Stress and Men’s Underuse of Tools The Role of Masculinity and Emotional Suppression Physiological Interventions: Exercise and Sleep Psychological Approaches: ACT, CBT, and Problem SolvingRelational and Social Support StrategiesPrinciples for Effective Stress Regulation for Men Conclusion: Tailoring Interventions to Men’s Needs Gratitude Hello to all our listeners, we thank you for tuning in and supporting positive social change, which makes you a part of Gunter’s efforts in transforming not only men's lives but lives in general and we are grateful you have joined us.This week we would like to share our gratitude with our listeners from Bulgaria who made it onto the Global Listeners List at #14! CONGRATULATIONS!!! We thank you so much for your continued support as we appreciate your efforts toward positive social change!I, DeVonna Prinzi the Co-Exec Producer and our Show-runner Miranda Spigener-Sapon sincerely thank you and ask that you please take the time to like, follow, subscribe, and share as your efforts make a difference to everyone here at Inspire Change with Gunter.We would love to hear your stories of social change and ask that you to reach out to the show directly. Please see the show-notes for our contact information.  We look forward to hearing from you!If these stories resinate with you and you would like to engage more with Gunter and the Inspire Change team, please consider joining our Patreon community, where our members find bonus content and early access to video episodes! Membership awaits at https://patreon.com/inspirechange.As always thank you to each and every one of our listeners, and most importantly please keep Inspiring positive social change.

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Stress doesn’t always show up loud. Sometimes it builds quietly—in the body the mind & our relationships On #InspireChange w/ @goodmengreat.bsky.social we explore how men experience stress—& what actually helps. For a deeper connection, join our Patreon www.patreon.com/posts/commun...

Inspire Change with Gunter 8-322 | When Men Can’t Grieve: The Hidden Cost of Suppressed Loss - Inspire Change with Gunter

#NewEpisode #InspireChange w/ #GunterSwoboda @goodmengreat.bsky.social an @iheartmedia.bsky.social #Spreaker #BonfireCinema originals #podcast 8-322 | When #Men Can’t Grieve
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Inspire Change with Gunter 8-322 | When Men Can’t Grieve: The Hidden Cost of Suppressed Loss What happens when grief has no place to go?In this episode of Inspire Change with Gunter, Gunter Swoboda explores one of the most overlooked emotional forces shaping men’s lives — grief. While loss is a universal human experience, many men grow up in cultures that quietly discourage them from expressing it.When grief is suppressed, it doesn’t disappear. Instead, it often re-emerges in other forms — anger, withdrawal, emotional numbness, or even collective unrest.Gunter examines how unprocessed grief can shape not only personal well-being, but the emotional climate of families, communities, and societies. Through psychological insight and cultural reflection, this conversation reveals how acknowledging grief can become a powerful step toward resilience, connection, and healing.Because sometimes the emotions we fear most are the very ones that help us rediscover meaning.Understanding grief — and giving it space — may be one of the most important steps toward creating a healthier emotional world for men and for society as a whole. In This Episode • Why grief is a necessary process in human emotional life • How cultural expectations have suppressed men’s ability to grieve • The psychological impact of unprocessed loss • Why anger and rage often mask deeper grief • The broader societal consequences of collective grief denial • How healthier emotional processing can lead to resilience and growth Key Insights “Rage is often fear or grief.” “Grief involves reorganizing meaning.” “Anger often masks unprocessed grief.” - Understanding Grief in Men’s Lives - The Nature of Grief and Its Impact - Masculinity and the Interject: A Cultural Lens - The Consequences of Unprocessed Grief - Grief as a Political Act Gratitude Hello to all our listeners, we thank you for tuning in and supporting positive social change. This makes you a part of Gunter’s efforts in transforming not only men's lives but lives in general and we are grateful you have joined us. This week we would like to share our gratitude with our listeners from Armenia who for the first time ever made it to our top 10 Global Listeners List at #10! CONGRATULATIONS!!! We thank you so much for your continued support as we appreciate your efforts toward positive social change! I, DeVonna Prinzi the Co-Exec Producer and our Show-runner Miranda Spigener-Sapon sincerely thank you and ask that you please take the time to like, follow, subscribe, and share as your efforts make a difference to everyone here at Inspire Change with Gunter. We would love to hear your stories of social change! Please remember if you would like to share, you can reach out to the show directly. Please see the show-notes for our contact information. We look forward to hearing from you! As always thank you to each and every one of our listeners, and most importantly please keep Inspiring positive social change

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Inspire Change with Gunter 8-321 | When Fear Becomes Power The Psychological Roots of Patriarchy & Authoritarianism - Inspire Change with Gunter

Fear doesn’t always look like weakness. Sometimes it looks like control. ThisWeek on #InspireChange w/ @goodmengreat.bsky.social 8-321 we explore how #fear fuels #patriarchy #authoritarianism social division — &how #resilience begins with awareness. #ListenNow
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When fear narrows our world, control can feel like safety.
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What ShapesOurLives more — the WorldAroundUs or TheInnerWorld within? #InspireChange @goodmengreat.bsky.social an @iheartmedia.bsky.social @spreaker.com #BonfireCinema #podcast explores #consciousness #SelfAwareness & InnerLives #men leave unexplored #Pause #Notice #BecomeAware #ListenNow

Inspire Change with Gunter 8-320 | Understanding Consciousness_ The Inner World Men Live In This week on Inspire Change, Gunter discusses what is consciousness, and how does it shape the inner lives of men? In this episode of Inspire Change with Gunter, Gunter explores the complex nature of consciousness and its profound influence on self-awareness, emotional experience, and personal growth. Drawing from psychology, neuroscience, and decades of therapeutic experience, he examines how consciousness shapes men’s inner worlds — and why understanding it is essential for healing, emotional intelligence, and authentic connection.  Rather than treating consciousness as an abstract concept, Gunter breaks it down into practical components that listeners can explore in their own lives. He explains how internalized voices, social conditioning, and relational environments influence self-perception and vulnerability, and how greater awareness can lead to healthier emotional expression and deeper personal insight.  This conversation offers practical questions and reflective tools designed to help listeners better understand their mental states, emotional patterns, and self-model — opening pathways toward growth, resilience, and meaningful change. Key Themes & Discussion Points The Nature of Consciousness - Why consciousness remains one of psychology’s most complex and “stubborn” questions - Exploring whether we are mechanical beings or living organisms with rich inner worlds The Three Components of Consciousness Gunter outlines three interacting elements: - State — the current mental and emotional condition - Content — thoughts, feelings, and sensory experience - Self-model — how we perceive and define ourselves Internalized Voices & Self-Perception - How introjected voices shape identity and self-awareness - The influence of early authority figures and cultural messaging - How internal narratives shape emotional regulation and behavior Social Environment & Emotional Expression - The role of mirror neurons and relational dynamics - How social environments influence vulnerability and connection - Why men often experience emotional restriction in relational spaces Consciousness & Masculinity - Cultural conditioning and its impact on men’s emotional access - How masculinity norms influence vulnerability and self-expression - The relationship between consciousness, emotional intelligence, and personal growth Practical Reflection Questions Gunter offers guiding questions to deepen awareness: State• What is my current mental and emotional state?• Am I calm, tense, distracted, or overwhelmed? Content• What thoughts and emotions are present right now?• Are they grounded in reality or shaped by past experience? Self-Model• How do I see myself in this moment?• Is this perception compassionate, critical, or inherited? These questions help cultivate self-awareness and create space for intentional change. Memorable Sound Bites “Are we machines or living beings with inner worlds?” “Consciousness is three things working together.” “Internalized voices shape your self-model.” 🌱 Why This Conversation Matters Understanding consciousness is not merely philosophical — it is practical. By becoming aware of the mental states, internal narratives, and relational influences shaping our inner worlds, we can develop greater emotional intelligence, resilience, and connection. This episode invites listeners to move beyond automatic reactions and toward conscious awareness, offering tools that support healing, self-understanding, and meaningful personal growth. Gratitude Hello to all our listeners, we thank you for tuning in and promoting positive social change.  This makes you a part of Gunter’s efforts in transforming not only men's lives but lives in general and we are grateful you have joined us.  This week we would like to share our gratitude with our listeners from the city of Tashkent (tAW-sh kent)!   You are responsible for getting Uzbekistan (ooz-beh-kuh-stan) to #15 on the Global Listeners List!  CONGRATULATIONS!!!  We thank you so much for your continued support as we appreciate your efforts toward positive social change!  I, DeVonna Prinzi the Co-Exec Producer and our Show-runner Miranda Spigener-Sapon sincerely thank you and ask that you please take the time to like, follow, subscribe, and share as your efforts make a difference to everyone here at Inspire Change with Gunter.  Please remember If you want to share your story of social change, feel free to reach out  to the show directly. Please see the show-notes for our contact information. As always thank you to each and every one of our listeners, and most importantly please keep Inspiring positive social change. 

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Go deeper into the inner world that shapes our thoughts, emotions, and relationships.

This week’s #InspireChange @goodmengreat.bsky.social reflection continues the journey into consciousness and self-awareness.

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What shapes our lives more — the world around us, or the inner world within?

This week on #InspireChange w/ Gunter @goodmengreat.bsky.social we explore consciousness, self-awareness, and men’s inner lives.

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When pressure rises, decency doesn’t disappear — it can become inaccessible.

This week’s episode #inspirechange with @goodmengreat.bsky.social an @iheartmedia.bsky.social @spreaker.com #bonfirecinema #podcast explores shame, #masculinity, and #connection.

Inspire Change with Gunter 8-319 | Are Men Losing Access to Their Decency? This week on Inspire Change, Gunter opens the conversation on whether human beings are fundamentally decent — and why that decency can become inaccessible in the moments that matter most. Drawing from contemporary social thought and decades of clinical experience, Gunter challenges the cultural addiction to cynicism and the masculine posture that equates hardness with maturity. While many systems assume people are selfish or brutal under pressure, Gunter suggests the deeper issue is not a lack of conscience, but restricted access to empathy, tenderness, and connection. He explores how men are often shaped by an internal moral code that links worth to competence, control, and self-sufficiency — a code enforced through shame and status defense. In this emotional operating system, vulnerability can feel like loss of rank, and softness like existential risk. As a result, decency may be present but hidden behind armor. This episode examines how these internal rules play out in conflict, intimacy, fatherhood, grief, and therapy — and why psychotherapy remains one of the few spaces where masculinity can be experienced without shame and connection can replace performance. Gunter also warns that moral ambition without vulnerability can become another form of defended performance. True change, he argues, begins with restoring access to vulnerability and relational accountability so that contribution becomes service rather than status. He offers three practical bridges for restoring access to decency: • Name the internal rule driving defensiveness • Practice small acts of shame tolerance through honest vulnerability • Make decency concrete through repair, accountability, and action under pressure If humans are decent, the real question becomes: why do so many men struggle to show it when it matters most? The answer is not that men are bad — but that many have been trained to protect rank and competence at the expense of connection.  This episode invites listeners to move decency from belief to behavior — breath by breath, repair by repair. Gratitude Hello to all our listeners, we thank you for tuning in and promoting positive social change.  This makes you a part of Gunter’s efforts in transforming not only men's lives but lives in general and we are grateful you have joined us.   This week for our Global Listeners List, and we would like to share our gratitude with our listeners in Singapore. You made it to #10 on our Global Listeners List for the very first time!   And to our listeners in the USA, we want to congratulate Texas for reaching #2 on our top USA listeners list! A special shoutout to our listeners in: Houston, Corpus Christi, Cedar Hill, Austin, New Boston, Deer Park, Round Rock, La Porte and our showrunner's hometown of Pasadena! CONGRATULATIONS!  We thank you so much for your continued support and we appreciate your efforts to support positive social change!  I, DeVonna Prinzi the Co-Exec Producer and our Show-runner Miranda Spigener-Sapon sincerely thank you and ask that you please take the time to like, follow, subscribe, and share as your efforts make a difference to everyone here at Inspire Change with Gunter.  Please remember If you want to share your story of social change, feel free to reach out  to the show directly. Please see the show-notes for our contact information. As always thank you to each and every one of our listeners, and most importantly please keep Inspiring positive social change.

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Why do decent people lose access to #empathy under pressure?

This week’s episode of #InspireChange with #GunterSwoboda @goodmengreat.bsky.social explores #shame, #status, and #connection.

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#Resentment can quietly #influence our #relationships #emotionalhealth #SenseOfSelf
ThisWeek on #InspireChange with #GunterSwoboda @goodmengreat.bsky.social an @iheartmedia.bsky.social @spreaker.com #bonfirecinema original #podcast we #explore how resentment forms — and how we begin #lettinggo

Inspire Change with Gunter8-318 | The Hidden Cost of Resentment — Understanding, Processing, and Reclaiming Agency This week on Inspire Change, Gunter discusses resentment. Resentment is one of the most misunderstood and quietly destructive emotional experiences we carry. In this solo episode of Inspire Change with Gunter, Gunter explores resentment not as explosive anger, but as a slow, chronic emotional accumulation that can shape identity, distort perception, and quietly erode relationships and personal well-being.Through psychological insight, clinical observation, and deeply reflective guidance, Gunter breaks down how resentment forms, why it persists, and how it manifests mentally, emotionally, behaviorally, and even physically in the body. Most importantly, he offers a structured, compassionate roadmap for transforming resentment into clarity, agency, and emotional freedom.This episode invites listeners to examine where unresolved wounds may still be influencing their present lives — and how releasing resentment can become a powerful act of self-liberation. Key Themes & Discussion PointsUnderstanding Resentment Beyond Anger - Resentment as chronic, unresolved emotional buildup - How resentment often disguises itself as moral righteousness or principle - The connection between resentment and unexpressed truths, unmet needs, and unspoken boundaries The Three Structural Components of Resentment - Perceived Injury – When expectations, trust, or fairness feel violated - Inhibited Expression – When emotions cannot be safely or openly communicated - Moral Accounting – The internal ledger that tracks perceived imbalance in relationships How Resentment Shapes Our Inner World - The mind’s tendency to replay and reinforce grievance narratives - Polarization of perception that reduces people to their mistakes - The illusion of strength resentment can provide while quietly draining emotional resilience Behavioral and Relational Manifestations - Passive resistance, sarcasm, withdrawal, and communication breakdown - Over-functioning and people-pleasing patterns that create hidden emotional debt - Scorekeeping in relationships and how it erodes intimacy and connection The Physical and Somatic Impact of Resentment - Chronic tension and stress responses stored in the body - Emotional states that influence sleep, mood, and nervous system regulation - Using bodily awareness as an early indicator of unresolved resentment The Deeper Psychological and Existential Effects - How resentment can distort worldview and identity - The role resentment plays in avoiding vulnerability, grief, and personal accountability - Why resentment can paradoxically maintain dysfunctional relationships Memorable Episode Insights “Resentment is anger that has nowhere to go, combined with the story that it shouldn’t have happened." “Resentment is often a protest against helplessness — the psyche saying this mattered.” “Resentment is the guard dog at the gate of grief.” “When you track love like a spreadsheet, intimacy goes bankrupt.” “Letting go of resentment isn’t about excusing the past — it’s about releasing internal captivity.” Why This Conversation MattersResentment is one of the most common yet unspoken emotional burdens people carry. Left unaddressed, it can limit joy, restrict vulnerability, and shape how individuals relate to themselves and others. This episode encourages listeners to approach emotional healing with precision, accountability, and compassion, creating space for deeper connection, authenticity, and personal transformation. Gratitude Hello to all our listeners, we thank you for tuning in and promoting positive social change.  This makes you a part of Gunter’s efforts in transforming not only men's lives but lives in general and we are grateful you have joined us.  This week we would like to share our gratitude with our listeners in Belgium. You made it to #8 on our Global Listeners List! A special thanks to listeners in Brussels (bruh-slz) and Bruges (brozh)for making it happen! And from the USA's Top Ten Listeners List, we want to appreciate Illinois giving a special shout out to Chicago, Bartlett, Hoffman Estates, Addison, Elk Grove Village, and Schaumburg for bringing Illinois all the way to #5.  CONGRATULATIONS Belgium and Illinois! We thank you so much for your continued support and we appreciate your efforts to support positive social change!  I, DeVonna Prinzi the Co-Exec Producer and our Show-runner Miranda Spigener-Sapon sincerely thank you and ask that you please take the time to like, follow, subscribe, and share as your efforts make a difference to everyone here at Inspire Change with Gunter.  Please remember If you want to share your story of social change, feel free to reach out  to the show directly. Please see the show-notes for our contact information. As always thank you to each and every one of our listeners, and most importantly please keep Inspiring positive social change.

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