#NINITIPS 🧨 It’s not important u control the way everyone or even how one person sees u. What IS important, what actually is the only thing that should be on yr agenda, is U getting the right view of yrself. How are u seeing yrself? How are u treating yrself? That’s what matters. The rest unfolds.
It’s important in relationships—especially ones that stress or confuse u—to take notes. To keep a diary. U can buy into someone else’s not-quite-honest narrative so much, u unintentionally displace reality. But finding yr own contradictory record will break that spell, n restore clarity. #NiniTips
I talk out loud to myself all the time n it’s so good I do. It’s how I figure stuff out. U have to know about yrself if this is u. U have to know the ways u need to interact energetically w the world. Don’t assume u work like everyone does. Don’t assume ur a defective version of them. #NINITIPS
As part of the progress I insist on since The Great Abandonment, I am finally cutting deeper into the kitchen environment/behaviors. TBH I’ve been a mess in the kitchen. I hate it. I really really am disgusted by it. One of those things that feels violently out of sync with your nature. But I’m living in a few ways like that now from momentum when I wasn’t living like that at all in 2012. My place in 2012 was gorgeous. Like a little art museum. So beautifully arranged, so colorful. I did not live with piles of clutter and… The results of keeping piles of clutter around too long. So I’m still climbing my way out of that n I will get there. I originally said it will take me six months to get living here the way I want to. I guess it’s been about five months now? Maybe it’ll be a little more than six months but I’m getting very close. Maybe it’s right on time! We’ll see. So I’ve begun this new habit that first began just with the coffee cup n espresso area. When I felt how gorgeous that was to just get up n be able to turn it on, I was SOLD. Now I’ve moved the habit into the kitchen area to make cooking breakfast a cinch. N MMM it feels good too. It’s very gross to make food in an area that’s not clean. N this is like magic. Especially when I get every single piece of dishware silverware n cookware I will need for the breakfasts I like to make. I don’t have to look for anything. It’s all right there. So I will continue to move in this direction.
Another angle. I’ve got all the spices I use for my eggs n egg sandwiches n omelettes. Got my mixing bowl, fork to stir with, n eat with. Glass to drink in. Second bowl if I need it. Small cast-iron pan for bacon or second component. Large pan for eggs or pancakes or both. Knife for cutting vegetables. Spatula for cooking. 🍳 I almost look forward to making breakfast. I know there will be a smile so wide on my face as I saunter into the kitchen, shaking my hips to the morning reggae beats…
I Am Kind 2 Future Me. Time I now dedicate 2 her= more ease n delight she has in the Now, 2!
Present Me wants 2 be comfy in bed! Dirty dishes? 😣 = Future Miserable (Morning) Me, handling filthy dishes when she’s hungry n wants coffee ‘NOW!’.
🥰 She’s gonna feel so loved in the morning!
#NINITIPS
This is one of my wigs, my best one, my favorite, in a sealed bag w a hairband with drops of my favorite essential oil, n an unburned incense stick. If u let household smoke from either the kitchen or recreational activities drift, n layer onto it as well as any dust or whatever floats in the air, yr hair will be much less attractive looking n smelling much faster.
🏳️⚧️ Girlie: wear a wig? 1, use real hair if u can afford. 2, take good care of it. Regular washing, conditioning; I dry mine under a fan w incense drifting up. I store in a sealed plastic bag when off, w either scented oil on rag or unburned incense. Get close to yr date, they WILL smell u! #NiniTips
#NINITIPS on getting going! ☺️🌱💚✨ #Life #Thinking #Planning #Organization #Perception #Clarity #Mental #Green
If u screenshot all yr memes instead of downloading, yr phone will automatically categorize them into the “screenshots“ folder w no further effort from u, n then u can easily find them all grouped when u need to #NiniTips
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🏳️⚧️ Girlie, here’s a map of the USA, highlighting the states that are safer or less safe for #trans people, going by anti-transgender legislation. #Trans #USA #Transgender #Safety #HumanRights #Transphobia #Genocide #TransWomen #TransWoman #NiniTips
SQWINCHER ZERO qwikSTIK, SUGAR FREE ELECTROLYTE BEVERAGE MIX hydration that won CONTAINS: 10/0.11 0Z (.0g)5 NET WT. 1.10 07 1
🏳️⚧️GIRLIE, u will hear a lot about drinking pickle juice early in #transition. ☺️ Why: #HRT can decrease/mess w electrolyte balance. Pickle juice is 1 source, of course, of sodium. 🥒 I fill a half-gallon jug w water + electrolyte powder. [My brand after researching (safe sweetener).] #NiniTips
whatever position yr body is in, whatever effort u make, be mindful of yr spine n keep it protected w some degree of muscle contraction, rarely curved over forward, n usually w a contracted lower (lumbar) curve #NINITIPS
#NiniTips If low on food, u may eat less. Which means u drink less. Hydrate. También, I keep peanut butter around bcz I have 800 jars. Noted 1 week I was eating less food but still gaining weight slowly ! It was peanut butter. It’s v fattening. Eat occasional spoonfuls 2 keep hunger away n weight on
#NiniTips #TransWoman my suggestion at this point for any other girlies is only use new very sharp razors here. At that stage, they cut effortlessly no pressure needed. I want to now remove all stress from the face from blades going forward. To enjoy the full glow n glory!
#NINITIPS Concerned w face aging? Don’t spend $1000 on product. Not yet.
First ✨increase yr water intake✨. A lot. Most of us walk around very dehydrated
2: ✨make sure u get the sleep u personally need✨, yr body needs
3: Reject stress. Keep your joy. Smile.
[ biggest culprits of lines n eyebags ]
*Don’t turn community into competition*
We r all competitive. Forgive yrself! We all watch each other. But the value of having a friend n someone who understands yr 🏳️⚧️ path is SO much greater than anything else. Trust me on this if u don’t already agree. #Trans #Transition #TransWoman #NiniTips
Apply makeup under flattering light. Even, warm, diffuse. Don’t apply makeup under harsh / unforgiving light. It will affect yr mood, technique, end result. #NiniTips #MakeUp
Don’t apply yr make up while u are sweating from the face. If need be put a fan directly on u, otherwise go very minimal or wait. (generally summertime advice) #NiniTips
sometimes u need to try some shit on yr face just to discover u shouldn’t put that shit on yr face #Makeup #NiniTips
Here’s one of the biggest social secrets that’s important to know when u r dealing w human beings. Whether u want to attribute it 2 the “era of enlightenment“ whatever, humans, elevate cerebral identity / data n metrics—in truth? We r all very *emotional creatures* !always remember that. #NiniTips
A stupid little cut on the underside of my middle finger bcz I let my passion n impulse get ahead of my practical mind, which is pretty much every single day but what are u gonna do but be yrself… n bleed, I guess
Gonna put a #NiniTips on this, just to poke fun at myself bcz nobody should need my advice to be told not to force a scissor closed when u are straining to cut beads hangin off a ring… Consider removing the ring first??? Blegh!🩸 #VintageNini
how should I handle it if someone says "i love you" super quickly If u have to ask me, u aren't comfortable w it. If u aren't comfortable w it but haven't said so, u have trouble drawing boundaries. If u have boundary trouble, u have big trouble, potentially. Here are some dynamite ideas: 1: Say "I don't dare return yr love, for I feel such blazing ardor for yr every movement n utterance that surely the nuclear furnace of my unrestrained affections would obliterate the very person I revere, n so l must remain lonely n discrete from yr tempting touch. If that's too aloof, try "I love yr heart, but I am a frosty eagles nest in the Alpine distance" n if that's too gushy, try "Darling, that's a U problem." BONUS: don't forget the classic, the deus ex machina of Hail Mary responses: "Mmmm. And I love pizza!" a link in bio
❤️🔥 THE NEED FOR SPEED 💃🏽 #AskNini🎙️https://tellonym.me/nineveh.aka.nini 💌 #Q&A #Questions #TransWoman #LGBTQ #Insight #Opinion #Wisdom #Curiosity #Love #Dating #NiniTips
🏳️⚧️ remember girlie, for good posture, always be pointin yr tits @ the stars
#NiniTips ✨😌😁⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️✨
It's just interesting sociologically or rather interpersonally. Pick a word. Both approaches yield very different results! (Can't be in the middle tho. If u r gonna let go of the forceful n confident, u must embrace the open n kind or u get the worst of both worlds. #NiniTips #Transition #TransWoman
This is close to my ideal lip line. We aren't close enough to see all the details, but I don't go to the full corner. I bring the color in a little early, so the very corners of my smile have no color on them. That keeps my mouth in a slightly smaller and slightly rounder looking shape when it opens n when it is closed, which I like. To me that looks very cute! When I stretch the lipstick all the way to the ends, my mouth tends to look too big. I think this tip can specifically apply to a trans woman who is going to have bigger jaws in general n therefore a bigger mouth which… That can look beautiful n that's fine but Depending on how you feel, it might feel dysphoric to u. It doesn't feel dysphoric to me… It's just not the look that pleases me the most! 💖 I wish my lips had more of a Cupid bow on top, but it does not so I create a couple rounded areas to mimic it. *This does not work unless the lipstick is like paint. Because to be honest, nothing looks silly than having whip lines drawn out of larger than your lips, but having it wear partially off.* That used to happen to me all the time, I started feeling silly about that, and I stopped Making the shape I liked until I found lipstick that will not come off, even if I lick it.
This stuff can vary a lot. I wouldn't give specific advice to a person until I spent time looking at their face n speaking w them. 💄 #Lipstick was 1 of the last things I nailed in #makeup. Mine used to bleed, get on everything, n I couldn't find a look that worked best for me.
#NiniTips in ALT text
So happy I found the Maybelline Matte Superstay series. I'd been looking for about 7 months for lipstick that stays fast, as u paint it. Makes it thru a shower!! Take yr time get a tight line. Put gloss or lip oil on top b4 u have to be presentable n it makes it all new. #NiniTips #Makeup #NiniStyle
Black pinstripe skirt, black lace, V cut black tight top. And the usual jewelry.
Most clothes I model here r from buynothing n free piles. Yr best bet, girlie! 🏳️⚧️ Try on everything u find in yr size, n discover what actually works for u, without dropping tons or $/be returning items #NiniTips
Bought this shirt, n got another kinda like it. I'm on short sleeve tops now #NiniStyle
🏳️⚧️The more u go out in the sun, girlie, the more yr body will get color n yr boobs may stay a bit softer n paler looking w a tan line softly graduating from upper chest to bra line. (HOT) Remember to keep a hat on so yr face only gets indirect sun. N if yr skin burns ez, sunscreen on chest. #NiniTips
#NINITIPS for cis lesbians w a #trans woman gf:
If yr #transWoman girlfriend asks u excitedly if her boobs/areolas etc are getting bigger?
U SAY YES
U don't scrutinize doubtfully n silently, u don't suggest she use a tape measure
You. Just. Say. YES
-Now enjoy yr happy lovelife; VENMO in bio 🤭
Nineveh ! This is my latest line of design where there is no one color n everything seems to shimmer into a different color, like a low-key rainbow gasoline on the water effect. It has many components n layers, it is definitely complex but very beautiful. Let's name it "Gasoline Princess"
NGL, my eye #makeup game is pure murder after 7 months. Here's one of my #NiniTips for you. Put it on every chance. Don't matter if u r staying in. I put it on, shower, put it on after. I approach things as a martial artist, n training is everything. The amount of hours I've invested into practice!
Some of my arsenal when it comes to prettification
#NINItips if u r a #transWoman - do yr basic grooming in the morning, even on weekends! Even on days off! Bcz an emergency or spontaneous event may pop up, leaving u no time to shave (if u still do), do makeup, or otherwise prepare to meet the world as u prefer!
Don't learn this 1 the hard way!
If I have an important event inna evening? Like a recent graduation? I won't shave in the morning if I can help it. I will save that for evening so I can get the tightest shave right b4 the event starts.
If I have to shave in the morning, Ill shave again later, just carefully. #NiniTips #TransWoman
