Three children in Victorian clothing are posed by and on their mother's grave, while the ghostly mother stands behind them. Stereoscope card, 1889 "The Orphans at their Mother's Grave."

#PhantomsFriday #InternationalHaikuDay

He killed me for her
Now she mistreats my children
See how she shivers.

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The Orphans at their Mother's Grave, 1889, Stereoscope card by Melander & Bro.
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A white beaded triangular immortelle or funeral wreath with scrolls, zig-zags, daisies, and a porcelain dove poised in the center of the triangle.

A detail of a white beaded triangular immortelle or funeral wreath with scrolls, zig-zags, daisies, and a porcelain dove poised in the center of the triangle.

The porcelain dove at the center of a white beaded immortelle / funeral wreath, there are multiple strings of white or silver beads and flowers made of wired beads with blue centers.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead A French beaded immortelle / funeral wreath in the shape of a triangle trimmed with zig-zag motifs, daisies, and a porcelain dove, perhaps representing the Holy Spirit or the soul ascending to Heaven.

A tombstone designed to look like a library catalog card. It has a hole punched through it because catalog cards used to be held in the drawers by a rod.

#NationalLibrarianDay Thomas Mann, who was a librarian at The Library of Congress, designed a catalog card gravemarker to mark his resting place at D.C.'s Congressional Cemetery.

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Die cut memorial card showing mourners and weeping trees framing a balloon-like section with the details of the deceased inked inside.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead Fashions in Funerals: “We have some lovely little boxes for babies; they are of pure white velvet with blue satin mouldings and corners. The lid turns back like a jewel case..."
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Alert: infant postmortem photo in post

A framed embroidery memorializing the victims of the Titanic disaster. British and American flags lie at the base of a monument inscribed "Women and Children First / In Memory of Those Who Perished Sea 15 4 1912 From Titanic R I P. In the background the Titanic approaches an iceberg.

Letter from the owner of the Titanic memorial embroidery describing it and offering it for sale.

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A quilted and embroidered memorial embroidery for the victims of the #Titanic disaster, c. 1912. Behind a monument where a mourning angel kneels, is the Titanic, heading for an iceberg.
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Yellowish picture of a skeletal death in a top hat driving a cart loaded with coffins, labeled "Cholera" Das ist des Todes reiche Mahd Von Leichen farren Weg und Pfad Und doch von allen keiner fiel Dem night der herr gesect das biel Translation of French rhyme in the post: Keep your feet warm, Keep your guts empty, Do not see Marguerite, You will be rid of cholera

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Rhyme against cholera 17th c.
Tiens tes pattes en chaud,
Tiens vides tes boyaux
Ne voyez pas Marguerite,
Du cholera tu seras quitte.

Keep your feet warm,
Keep your guts empty,
Do not see Marguerite,
You will be rid of cholera
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Black dress with gigot sleeves, long skirt, satin sash, lace yoke.

Side view of a black dress with gigot sleeves, long skirt, satin sash, lace yoke.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead Aesthetic mourning dress, c. 1895-1899. Second mourning, indicated by a lace yoke and sleeves and the shiny satin sash. The drooping gigot sleeves and Watteau back drape suggest Aesthetic movement style cues.
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Photograph of an older woman seated in a high-backed armchair, wearing full mourning. Her dress is tied at the waist with a large ribbon bow. She wears a widow's cap with white ruche.

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Portrait de Marie Worth en grand deuil, Emile Messy, 1895
Marie Worth, widow of Charles-Frederick Worth [who died 10 March 1895], in full mourning, although she seems to not be wearing a veil with her mourning bonnet.
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Vanitas painting by Adriaen van Nieulandt, 1636, showing a skull with a fly perched on the head, with a bone lying next to it. There are withering flowers in a vase, a few petals have already fallen. There are coins, a shell, and pearls, a stack of books, and a butterfly.

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Vanitas, Adriaen van Nieulandt, 1636. Dying flowers, a fly on a skull, books and treasures--with emphatic mottos: "Equid sunt aliud, quam breve gaudium?": What are these other than a brief joy? "mourir pour vivre": Die to live
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The tombstone of Paul G. Lind [Ebbighausen] modelled to look like a Scrabble board. It has a red border and multicolored tiles spelling out words describing the young man.

#NationalScrabbleDay The tombstone of Paul G. Lind, scrabble enthusiast.
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Gold ring with black enamel swirl patterns and framing pearls set in the bezel. One pearl is missing.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead Mourning ring in gold, black enamel, and pearls, inscribed
“In loving memory…W. Hunsley Greaves…15th Oct 1894, Aet. 66”.
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Black fabric bonnet trimmed with twisted black fabric under the crown and around the brim.

Rear view of black fabric bonnet showing twisted black trimming and bavolet.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead Mourning bonnet, c. 1840. The trimmings are twisted mourning crape [most common 19th century spelling for the fabric]. The bavolet is also made of crape.
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A framed memorial print showing a tomb topped with a flaming urn before a weeping willow. Other tombstones and a church are seen in the foreground and background. A ribboned wreath made of hair stands before the tomb.

A detail of a framed memorial printing showing flowers and brass and several tombstones next to a large monument inscribed "In Memory Of" with a ribboned wreath of hair before it.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead Young Adaline Van Buren died #OnThisDay, 1849. This Currier memorial print has the details written on the tomb: In Memory of Adaline Van Buren who died April the 12 1849—aged 6 years & 3 months & twenty one days. A wreath made of Adaline's hair stands before the tomb.

An 18th or early 19th century funeral showing a group of weeping mourners in white and black garments/cloaks and veils walking by a hand-carried bier shrouded in black and topped with white plumes. 2 mutes with white sashes and staves walk in front of the bier. The parsons walk before the mutes. There are several funeral carriages driving ahead of the walking mourners up a hill.

#ForteanFriday #PhantomsFriday
Some tales of phantom and dream funerals--invariably an omen of death.
The mourners in white, white plumes, and white draped mutes in the picture suggest a young person's funeral.
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Carved wooden model of a hearse. The hearse is drawn by two black horses and driven by a driver in a top hat and black clothing. The hearse itself has an oval window trimmed in gold paint and gold finials on the roof.

Carved wooden model of a hearse. The hearse is drawn by two black horses and driven by a driver in a top hat and black clothing. The hearse itself has an oval window trimmed in gold paint and gold finials on the roof.

The back of a carved wooden hearse, showing the inside, containing a coffin.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead Folk art carved wooden hearse by Marshall B. Fleming of New Creek, West Virginia, 1980s. The hearse on which it was modeled was used by a local funeral home. The hearse is drawn by two black Percherons and inside there is a tiny corpse in a coffin.
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Gold mourning ring, the bezel in white enamel framed in black and gold, showing a black and gold urn set with diamonds on the base and lid.

reverse of a gold mourning ring showing a glass-covered compartment containing a lock of hair.

A mourning ring in gold, enamel, and diamonds, for Elizabeth Rotton, who died #OnThisDay 1797. It is inscribed "Eliz Rotton ob 9 April 1797 ae 71," and has a hair locket on the reverse containing a lock of her hair.
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Half-mourning dress in black with ivory/white bands and fringes edged in black lace. Long train with scalloped edge in the back.

Half-mourning dress in black with ivory/white bands and fringes edged in black lace. Long train with scalloped edge in the back.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead Half-mourning gown in black silk with white trim covered in black cotton laces, edged with white fringe. c. 1872-74.
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Wood engraving of an oblong coffin either covered with watered silk fabric or wood-grained. There is a glass viewing portal at one end and a series of fancy handles around the edge. https://collections.musee-mccord-stewart.ca/en/objects/20139/cercueil?ctx=73febe61fee8dfa25a7309ff377267968bf3d67f&idx=42

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1885 #riddle
There was a man who bought a thing,
The thing he bought he did not want,
The man who sold it could not use it,
The man who used it did not know it.

(It was a coffin.)
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A bisque beer stein shaped like a skull with grinning teeth. The lid has greyish metal surround and an acanthus leaf thumbpiece. Bohne skull stein, Milwaukee, c. 1900,

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Sexton (drinking with undertaker): “That was a severe coughing fit.”
Undertaker: “Oh, it is just a little ale which went down the wrong way.”
Sexton: “Ah, that’s just like you. You always lay the coffin on the bier.”
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Black and white tête de mort of a skull and cross bones set before a book. The skull is made up of two men in pork-pie hats drinking beers, with the teeth made of beer bottles. Originally captioned "Medicine is such a dry subject."

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"Medicine is such a dry subject."
Beer-drinkers tête de mort, 1909

Yellowish illustration of a cherub with wings carving a tombstone with a chisel and mallet. The tombstone has a weeping willow on it and the words "In Memory Of" There is an obelisk tombstone and an urn on a pedestal on the background.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead #PlanYourEpitaphDay The Tombstone Censor tells you what you can and cannot have carved upon your gravestone.
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Black and beige bookplate for Otto Krenge showing an owl perched on a skull with a rising sun behind, framed in art nouveau lilies. The words "Mein Eigen!" are written in gothic script above the owl.

#MementoMoriMonday and #OwlishMonday mood. Mein eigen!

Bookplate for Otto Krenge, Atelier Stolle, Harzburg
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black cross inlaid with white flowers: a rose, clematis, daisies, and lily of the valley. It has a gold cap on the top of the cross and a fancy loop for suspension.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead Pietra dura mourning cross set with a white rose, daisies, lily of the valley, and clematis (?).
#Easter

Woman in Victorian widow's weeds - long black dress, bonnet and veil, accepts a bunch of Easter lilies from a barefooted little boy in a green jacket and cap, carrying a basket of lilies. They stand before a rough stucco arch and a picket gate leading to a cemetery.

Sorg / Grief, Gunnar Aberg, c. late 1880s. #Easter #Easterlilies
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A wood-engraving advertisement for a rat poison called Tord-Boyaux, showing a rat family mourning over a dead rat.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead #WorldRatDay
Wood engraving advert for Tord-Boyaux rat poison, showing a rat family mourning over a dying rat. c. 1880
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Printed satin mourning badge for William Henry Harrison showing an urn-topped tomb with a railing in front of it, backed by a weeping willow. "In Memory of Wm. H. Harrison, 9th President, U.S. Who Departed This Life April 4th, A.D. 1841, aged 68. Universally Lamented."

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead Died #OnThisDay in 1841, President William Henry Harrison, after a month in office.
Printed satin mourning badge for the late President.
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A colored print showing the death of William Henry Harrison. Three men in black suits stand or sit at the foot of the red-draped bed. One has his face buried in his handkerchief. A man in a blue suit and a woman in a blue dress are in the right of the image. The woman covers her face with her hand. A minister stands on the other side of the bed, where the very pale president lies.

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Died #OnThisDay 1841, President William Henry Harrison. He was thought to have caught pneumonia from getting chilled during his inauguration, but may actually have died of typhoid.
Death of Harrison, April 4 A.D. 1841, N. Currier colored print
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A woman sitting on her bed in a slip and robe, which is hanging off her shoulders, looks at a hat with a plume, while she pulls back the curtain to reveal rainy weather. The illustration was captioned "Easter Mourning"

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead #Easterbonnet #Easter
The Easter bonnet was an essential element of the Victorian/Edwardian woman's wardrobe. Sadly, it often became a matter of life and death.
Easter Bonnet Tragedies: 1892-1914
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French beaded immortelle in white and black beads wired in scallops. The beads frame a silver-metal crucifix under a dome of glass. There are beaded flowers in pale purple and green on one side of the crucifix.

French beaded immortelle in white and black beads wired in a web pattern.The beads frame a silver-metal crucifix under a dome of glass. There are beaded flowers in pale purple and green on one side of the crucifix.

#TheVictorianBookoftheDead #GoodFriday A French immortelle in black, white, purple, green, and yellow beads. At the center is a pressed silver-metal (perhaps silvered tin) crucifix under glass. These were periodically renewed on holidays like All Souls Day and death anniversaries.

Carved wooden crucifix with INRI scross above the corpus. The base extends down with curves onto a skull and crossbones base.

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Carved wooden crucifix with skull and crossbones base, Southern German, 18th c.
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