Healing From The Parent Or Person Who Never Protected You | Ostenako Struggling more with the one who stayed silent than the one who hurt you? This breakdown explores healing from enablers, not just abusers, and why that wound cuts so deep.

Sometimes the person who did the most damage was not the one who hurt you.
It was the one who watched, minimized, or stayed “neutral.”
You are allowed to heal from enablers too.
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…those rights to all humans on our soil. They need to act lawfully - identification, signed warrant from a court - otherwise we don’t know who’s who. And, we simply cannot allow just anyone in a costume to pick people up. It’s like Christmas on steroids for sexual predators. 3/3
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