You are not alone! Our pain feels unique but it almost never is. I wrote the book because I want you to see how low we can go and why we should never stop at the bottom!
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It will take time to change because they're scars and scars remain. They're not gone, just forgotten about for periods of time. They will pop up again in down or low moments, or real problems present.
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NEW YEAR NEW YOU!!! Or maybe just the real you!
Happy New Year! I hope it's the freest you've ever felt.
Glad you have joined us here. We are healing together.
#healingjourney
#healing
#betterlife
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The bigger the act, the more Graceful I can be, the more healed I begin to feel. It's like having proof I'm getting better.
#grace
#lettinggo
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Sad but true!! I'm sorry you had to go through that, but you did just that, you got through it!!! That's because you are stronger than most people can ever imagine having to be.
#livestrong #perserverance #survivor #therestiseasy
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I really wish that this worked; I just haven’t seen it happen. Our best bet is to let go of the possibility that they’ll ever show up to meet our needs. #emotionalintelligence #emotionalhealing
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You can start today by writing yourself a message and placing it on your bathroom mirror. I AM BETTER THAN HOW I FEEL. or I AM EVOLVING INTO MY REAL SELF. or I AM WORTHY AND I DESERVE GOOD THINGS.
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Our wounds are not our identity. They are merely proof we survived.
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I'm still improving my ability to see these signs and make these changes when they're still nudges. It's often a risk but fighting for what's not right is much more exhausting than going with the flow.
#Change #letitgo #Moveon
#humility
#rightplacerighttime
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The caveat here is that it takes constant attention. Attention to my motives, my insecurities, my self-pity, my resentments, my sense of victimization and perhaps most of all, my sense of gratitude, just to name a few.
#happiness
#Intuition
#insidejob
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The entire paradigm of existential psychology is based on a simple notion. "We feel the way we feel, because we think the way we think." (AN ENTIRE PARADIGM.)
#happiness
#betterlife
#emotionalintelligence
#youcanchangeyourlife
#changeisgood
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It’s called overcompensating and mistreated children whose worth was not validated almost always experience this “distorted perspective” type of scarring.
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Let that sink in for whenever you doubt yourself. I don't have anything else to add, I just want a piece of that cake. I deserve it!!! lol, We deserve it!!
#cakewalk
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You probably won’t know you even matter when you matter the most. Shine your light just in case!
#kindness
#kindnessmatters
#grace
#makegrace
#practicerandomactsofkindness
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If you are struggling to change in the ways you want to you may just need some help. Find a good therapist. You're worth it! You’ll be amazed how fast things can change when you’re ready to heal. #TraumaSurvivor
#abusesurvivor #survivor
#healingjourney
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One of the most common attributes of people that have overcome adversity is their belief that by helping others do the same, they can create more healing opportunities for themselves. Namaste and Happy New Year
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#bestlife
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I choose to completely end my connection to them and their behavior. I still have the emotional stains but the scars are less visible to me and others too.
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"Free your mind and the rest will follow"
En Vogue
Our desire to see someone pay for their mistakes is related to our desire to see JUSTICE done. Justice is an occurrence and not a supernatural phenomenon of the physical word.
#forgiveness
#lettinggo
#bestlife
#notworthit
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When we grow up in emotionally unstable homes or when we spend years in toxic environments dysfunction can become the norm. IT’S NOT!!!
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Compassion has become so rare that we have figured out ways to buy it and sell it. It's so vital that in the modern world we've actually started charging money for it; so important that sometimes we even call it healthcare.
#compassion
#caring
#generosity
#payitforward
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Lets not blame or burden the people of value to us now, for the failures of the toxic people that injured us back then.
#toxicrelationships
#codependency
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#abusesurvivor
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JUST STOP IT!!!!!
Our value comes with our birth but sometimes events make us question it. The secret is to not do things we don't approve off and to do things we do. TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE
#selfworthjourney
#selfimprovement
#insidejob
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Then we wonder why we can’t heal fully.
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#letitgo
#moveon
#forgiveness
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To be unencumbered by the past is the greatest freedom we survivors can ever know.
#survivor
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#abusesurvivor
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If we believe there needs to be more kindness in the world then the simplest place to make some is right at home in our own heads.
#kindness
#practicerandomacts at home
#benicetoyourself
#childwithin
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We don’t act good or act bad. We either love or we hurt. No one is all bad or all good. People are only very wounded or very healthy.
#trueself
#onlyme
#CompassionInAction
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I love this truth. In fact it is one of my greatest hopes that people who read Neglected Damaged Graced will be motivated to embrace this reality
#lettinggo
#bestlife
#spiritualawakening
#SpiritualGrowth
#spiritualjourney
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This isn’t about blame or forging some form of resentment. It’s about shinning light on WHY we may have missed the flags in the people we choose. It is designed to make sense of why we miss what others may see as obvious.
#HealingTogether
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