Neurodivergent white people: You're positioned as white first, raised in systems embedding racism before neurodivergence even registers. The work? Unpack that daily. Notice how it shapes how you approach Black + Brown ND folks. Centering your neurodivergence without racial accountability just recreates the same extractive dynamics. Who's doing this work consistently? And what onTok Lite pattern you've had to unlearn Lovette Jallow

We see it when white people claim 'I'm just autistic' to excuse cruelty, bias, or aggression. The same distancing logic applies: 'I can't be responsible for this harm because I'm not capable of understanding it the way you do.' Lovette Jallow

Home is not a person who watches us collapse and calls it resilience. Home is someone who sees our regulation as a priority. Who knows that overstimulation, shutdowns, and silence aren't signs of failure-but of presence. That we are still here, even when we retreat. That we are still loving, even when we fall quiet. Lovette Jallow

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